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Buffy Smith's avatar

Sorry I’m commenting three times but my brain only works in fits and starts. Honestly my greatest treasure (aside from the tik tok lunch lady and my being a 50 year old woman obsessed with TS drama) is something my daughter told me this morning. I have 3 girls - Maggie, Zoe and Tori. Maggie is in college. Zoe and Tori are twins but Zoe’s in 9th and Tori’s in 8th. Tori has a very rare chromosome disorder so she acts a little younger than she is, but she is totally with it socially and she’s a trip. Anyway, she told me today that they had to write an essay in ELA about their heroes and she wrote it about Maggie, her older sister. My mom heart exploded. Just to hear how Tori sees her older sister and what an impression she’s made on Tori’s life. It’s dear. I cannot.

Y’all, take the wind when you get them. Write them down. Relish them. This is something I will need to come back to on those rough days as a parent.

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Emma Garwood's avatar

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

I have one major turd this week - my 3rd grade daughter wanted to invite a friend home from school. The mom replied to me that they don't let their son have playdates with girls, in case feelings became involved down the road & they had to redraw the boundaries. She said it in such a nice way that at first I brushed it off, like, oh, that's weird, too bad. But as more time goes by, it's making me sadder & sadder. I feel bad for their kid, for my daughter, for females in general, mad about Christians who sexualize little kids. This mom couldn't have known, but my daughter is nonbinary due to a hereditary condition, so I'm already on alert for gender-related challenges she might have, I just was never expecting this particular one? So basically I'm processing this with everyone I know in the hopes that I don't let it ruin my Thanksgiving. 😂

Treasure - each year for the last four years, I've gotten together with friends & we've watched a movie and eaten pie the night before Thanksgiving (masked & distanced last year!). It is my absolute favorite tradition. This year we're watching Jungle Cruise & having apple pie.

Wishing you all a very happy Thanksgiving. :)

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