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Happy Friday, babes!

It’s been many many weeks since I’ve been able to pop into the comments, but I’m so happy to be here today. Things have been level 10 hard (as Hannah Myer calls it: #RealFeel95) out here in these streets and my emotional sanity was hanging on by a single thread that finally popped last night. Longgggg story short, I don’t have family to spend holidays with, so I opened up my home to my small group and my friend who also doesn’t have family. No one in my small group came (which wasn’t really a surprise - I figured most of them had families to go to, but just thought I’d offer just in case). But my friend flaked on me very last minute, which left me sobbing into my trays of baked mac and cheese and sweet potato casserole. I’m so so SO grateful for my big sister and beloved Lil Swipe Danielle who let me FaceTime her and ugly cry and just sat with me in my feelings. I’m so grateful for the community that this newsletter has brought into my life. I have some of the sweetest friends who are there in the darkest times of my life because of this corner of the internet.

Speaking of: ATTENTION ALL PEOPLE WHO ARE COMING TO THE CHICAGO SHOW. Now, that I have your attention: hi, hello! Can’t wait to see you. Just wanted to start throwing it out there that we will be having a Lil Swipe Chi Town meet up after the Popcast show at a bar near the venue. Location TBD. Just wanted to put it on everyone’s radar.

Okay now lemme hit some treasures:

- Watching The Family Stone on Thanksgiving night. It’s one of my favorite stolen traditions (thanks JBG).

- today I’m going to take my time browsing a bookstore. In my general theme of being gentle with myself this week, this sounds like the perfect thing to bring joy and delight to this weekend.

- today I will also be watching Die Hard while putting up my Christmas Tree and making a batch of chicken and dumplins (see: line above about delight and gentleness)

That’s all from me! See you when I see you!

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Yesterday was good and hard. I want to have a better relationship with my parents but I feel like I am walking on 1,000 eggshells. I hosted in my little house and our friends also joined us and that was great but at one point I wanted to crawl in a hole and cry because I felt so overwhelmed. I have to go shopping with my mom today and I am worried she will ruin my experience. We’re only going to small businesses - no big black friday craziness. But still. It’s hard.

I am excited for Small Shop Saturday - I hope everyone has a small business they’re supporting this season! I had such a great response to sharing small businesses on my IG story. I only did about 20 and it was so tiring (how do IG influencers do it!?) but so many people told me they were going to shop those small businesses this weekend - it was totally worth it.

I don’t have much else to say because I am just tired but friends - please keep me in your thoughts and prayers. I am trying to work through decades of trauma and emotional hardship and it feels like every time I see my parents, it sets me back 6 months.

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