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Alicia's avatar

It has been a fun and crazy and exhausting week. I spent last Saturday through Thursday on a Spring Break trip to Universal with my family. We drove this year and all was great, minus, you know, traffic. We all loved Universal and the kids got along great. On the way back, we spent the night in Nashville where they left me until my friends from Missouri picked me up Friday afternoon so we could head to Birmingham! We had a great time exploring a little of the city and trying out Popcast recommended places. Then, the show! So, so good! Erin - you looked amazing! You all did a fantastic job and my cheeks were hurting from smiling/laughing. Those of you still going and meeting up are going to have the best time. I wish I coups be there again! Now to drive back to MO - on my birthday. 😜 Hopefully traffic does not get backed up at all today. That’s my birthday wish. I am no ready to be home in my own bed.

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Jessica C.'s avatar

Shout out to this Substack app for making it much easier to hop in the comments now! 🥰 I hope everyone is having a great weekend. I normally am not a fan of April Fools, but yesterday one of my classes got me good. It’s my first year teaching 8th grade at a new school, and my students all hid in another teacher’s room after lunch. If I hadn’t found them, it was going to be mortifying to have to call the office and admit I’d lost my entire class. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Middle schoolers can be infuriating but are also pretty funny at times!

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Amanda Johnson's avatar

If I could eat one food for the rest of my life it would be baklava (particularly from Hella’s in Tarpon Springs, FL)…so I will be watching these baklava making videos forevermore. Thank you for this 🤗🤌

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Sarah Clark's avatar

I feel the “trying to get my s-word together, keeping things short and sweet” vibe, Erin, as I am trying to get all my s-word together before I leave my four children behind for an actual vaycay with my husband - a week away, the longest we’ve left the kids since the p-word started and the first time I’ve left the baby behind, plus no cell service AT ALL for five of those days - so I am all up in my feels and my enneagram stress number (I am a 9, so I am 6ing HARD right now going through AAAAALLLLL of the worst case scenarios).

Short and sweet treasures:

1. Smoothies 🥤

2. Playing video games with my boys 🎮

3. Reading my fave HP out loud to my oldest (#5) 🪄

4. Baby kisses 😘

5. Lil Swipes book club discussion 📖

6. Friends who can lend you a manual breast pump at the 11th hour (TMI? Maybe. Sorry.). 👙

7. This quote:

"Tell God all that is in your heart, as one unloads one's heart, its pleasures and its pains, to a dear friend. Tell Him your troubles, that He may comfort you; tell Him your joys, that He may sober them; tell Him your longings, that He may purify them; tell Him your dislikes, that He may help you to conquer them; talk to Him of your temptations, that He may shield you from them; show Him the wounds of your heart, that He may heal them; lay bare your indifference to good, your depraved tastes for evil, your instability. Tell Him how self-love makes you unjust to others, how vanity tempts you to be insincere, how pride disguises you to yourself as to others. If you thus pour out all your weaknesses, needs, troubles, there will be no lack of what to say. You will never exhaust the subject. It is continually being renewed. People who have no secrets from each other never want for subjects of conversation. They do not weigh their words, for there is nothing to be held back; neither do they seek for something to say. They talk out of the abundance of the heart, without consideration, just what they think. Blessed are they who attain to such familiar, unreserved intercourse with God.”

          –Francois Fenelon

In the words of Porky Pig, That’s all folks! I hope so many of you have a blast at the upcoming Live shows and have the best week available to you!

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Jenny Tillay's avatar

Sarah I loved my birthday card!! Thank you so much for your thoughtfulness 💜💜

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Sarah Clark's avatar

You’re so welcome, Jenny!

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Erin H Moon's avatar

You're doing it! Have the best time!

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Rebecka's avatar

Wow, that quote!

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Rebecka's avatar

Hello, hello!

🤗 First of all, thank you so much for your Ts and Ps last week! After a week in bed I woke up on Saturday without a migraine and I was able to go to my parents' anniversary celebration as well as my niece's part the day after! And two days of talking and laughing with my siblings and niblings made my heart so full and happy! ❤

🛁 I finally have a functioning, and whole, bathroom sink again after a year of using a very broken (and smelly) one and a little over a week of brushing my teeth and washing my face in the kitchen. My landlords have been promising to replace the old one since May last year and when they finally did, the new one didn't fit and my landlord had to go to Germany for work and left it unfinished until he came back. 😂

🤯 One thing that always fascinates me is that there are so many jobs out there that I just never knew people could have. (Like, did you know there are chocolate historians?) Yesterday I read this article about a man who makes his living making dukachus for movies and TV and... well, I'm still processing. 😳🍆 https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/mar/28/hollywoods-no-1-penis-maker-chris-hemsworth-thors-hammer-prosthetic-schlong?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

Have a wonderful weekend!

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Karen's avatar

Hahahah that article is hilarious. And also something I would go down a rabbit hole learning about! 😂 I’m so glad you have a working sink! When your house is out of order, it’s a rough go.

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Eliza Barger's avatar

Yay for fully functioning bathrooms!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

The fact that you spent time reading that article is amazing. Mostly because it's something I would do. Like how I spent more than a little time last week reading about all the ridiculous names of minor league baseball teams. More importantly, so glad you have a whole bathroom again!

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Beth's avatar

Sending you renter's solidarity. Glad it's fixed!

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

Good morning Lil Swipes!

The last few Fridays have been bonkers & I’ve completely missed even reading Erin’s email, so it feels so nice to be back. ☺️

🤕 Thank you for the great advice I got a few weeks ago about my sprained ankle! It is a bad sprain, but not a terrible one. 3.5 weeks in & I’m still on crutches, but I have an appt with my doc today to possibly get a PT rec - I just really want to be healthy to walk a million miles on both feet for our Europe trip at the end of May.🤞 In the meantime, I’ve been working out in therapy why it’s been so hard for me to accept help (wow so much fun 😂). But, a week ago I challenged myself to accept help *every time* someone offers, and it has been (surprisingly) more good than hard! Who knew? 🤣

🎟 Hardcore praying that the PMG can get a little closer to California next time 😆. But anyone else watching the Dallas livestream? 😃

🎠 A friend of mine works at Disneyland and is able to get us (my husband and I) into the park for free next weekend!! We only live 30 minutes from the park, but haven’t been since 2019 (pre-Star Wars land!). It’ll only be a half day, but I am SO excited. (Also might have to rent a wheelchair because of my ankle, so that’ll be a little bummer.) But mostly EEEE!

🏠 In a very strange turn of events, my husband and I are now the interim property managers for our small apartment complex. It will be an interesting couple of months for us, no doubt. 😅

Okay, thanks for reading this whole thing, brevity is not my strong suit! Haha. Have the best weekend available to you, friends. 🥰

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Eliza Barger's avatar

I'm debating doing the livestream and then watching the replay. I don't want to miss out on the fun, but I have Hamilton tickets that night.

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

Eliza, that is such a good reason to miss the livestream 😂 Have you seen Hamilton on stage yet?

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Eliza Barger's avatar

I haven't, I'm really looking forward to it!

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Jenny Tillay's avatar

Yes we need a show in LA please 💜

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Ellen Tate's avatar

Livestream buddies!!

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

Love it! Where will you be watching from? 😊

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Ellen Tate's avatar

Fayetteville, Arkansas! You?

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

Oh fun! I’m watching from Los Angeles, CA!

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Jackie's avatar

I am so excited for your Disneyland trip and I cannot wait to go back next year to see some holiday decorations!!!

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Rebecka's avatar

I keep hoping for a European PMG tour but it's probably more likely that they'll come to California soon. 😂 Hope your ankle gets better soon and that you'll have a wonderful time at Disneyland!

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Rocky's avatar

I have not been thriving physically but mentally pretty ok. I'm headed to KC to babysit my 7 year old nephew, except now my brother isn't working and I'm going anyway. I'm going to have him help me clean my car- going through the fancy automated car wash that has the free vacuum and the cool mat cleaner thingies- I figure a 7 year old will like that. Also there's some sort of putty stuff you can use to clean up crumbs etc. that get in the cracks? I didn't know that existed and I am into it. I guess what I'm saying is a 7 year old and I have many of the same interests.

My husband and I are taking a short vacay to Chicago for the live show next week- leaving Thursday, returning Sunday. Neither of us has ever been to Chicago and I'm looking forward to it! He's a farmer so getting him to be away from the farm for any amount of time is hard.

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

Giordanos or Lou Malnati's for pizza, go to Millennium Park to see the Bean (I super recommend doing it at night, it's so cool that way!), donuts at Do-Rite or Stan's or Doughnut Vault, the Navy Pier, Lake Michigan!

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Yay, Chicago!!

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Kendra W's avatar

Why does Julia Fox give me Miranda Sings vibes?!

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Erin H Moon's avatar

I AM DYING AT THIS

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Ronda's avatar

This week I started a new exercise program which is good and kicking my butt, so sore. I have needed the endorphins as work projects have kicked into high gear and the stress factor of the next month will be high. I’m going to Maine in August for my best friends 40th and we are going to Acadia if you been and have some can’t misses I would love to hear them, as I have never been. We will be in Maine for a week and I’m so excited!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

The only experience I have with Maine was when I was a college student and a friend and I were driving from Virginia to Maine for a sorority event. We hit Maine about 10:30 at night and were convinced dementors were going to fly out of the trees and Voldemort would show up. Maybe don't drive around at night? Otherwise (in the daytime), it was lovely!

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Ronda's avatar

Avoiding dementors is always a good goal!

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Ellen Tate's avatar

We did our honeymoon in Portland! Maine is delightful. We drove up to Acadia for a day, and it was a brief stop but very cool. Depending on where in Maine you’re staying, this may not be possible, but Portland is a really fun area if you can make it over there for a day.

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Ellen Tate's avatar

Good morning everyone! Man, so excited for all of you who are going to a live show!! I'm sure it'll be the best time. Will be spiritedly watching the live stream at the end of the month :)

Turds:

- work has been *a lot* lately on multiple fronts. I work in college ministry and I've recently taken on some roles that are new to me (I think I wrote about this a while ago?) and I'm experiencing the weight of leadership in a new way these days.

- because I've taken on more of the leadership in our ministry lately, I've been very sensitive to the ups and downs of our students' experiences. When I'm being healthy, I realize that their sweet brains aren't done cooking yet and they're generally doing the best they can, and my job is to come alongside as I'm able. When I'm not, I feel like how they're doing reflects on how i'm doing as a leader. yikes! is this what parenting feels like y/n

- Carter (husband) is going back into the office on Monday after working from home since the beginning of covid. My extroverted self is *not* enjoying the idea of my fav guy being out of the house all day instead of me being able to pop in and say hi throughout the day (as I also kind of work from home). also we met during covid so we've literally never done this hahahaaaaa it's fine

Treasures:

- I've got two trips on the horizon that are giving me life! In May, Carter and I are going to spend a day at silver dollar city (in branson, missouri - it's like...las vegas for retired white evangelicals) and ride rollercoasters to our hearts' content.

- My dad and I are going to see Ben Rector in Dallas in June, and I haven't told him yet! Anticipating the surprise is half the fun. My dad is just the sweetest and our shared love of Ben Rector is such a delight in my life. Tell me your thoughts on the new album in the comments..."Heroes" hasn't stopped wrecking me yet.

Thanks for reading! brevity is not in my wheelhouse lol

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Lauren White O'Brian's avatar

My husband is also going back to the office on Monday and I’m so upset about it!!! I don’t want him to go there and be sad all day. And I’ll miss him! I imagine this is what it feels like when you take your kid to daycare for the first time 😭😭😭

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Ellen Tate's avatar

Bummer Lauren, but selfishly glad I’m not the only one dealing with this 🤪 maybe it will be better than we think?!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

I love so much that you and your dad are going to a Ben Rector concert!

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Heidi's avatar

Silver Dollar City! Go on the log ride for me, and admire all the handicrafts! I love that place.

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Kendra W's avatar

realizing that covid has lasted long enough for a person to meet/date/marry is blowing my mind! Congratulations!!!

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Ellen Tate's avatar

haha, it's been a whirlwind for sure! for context, we met nov. 2020, got engaged may 2021, and married sept 2021. Very efficient ;-)

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Rocky's avatar

like Vegas for retired white evangelicals- I'm screaming! The most accurate thing I've ever read.

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

I work with college students (in a ministry/academic context), and I feel this so hard. Can’t speak to the parenting side, but I empathize with you so much here! ❤️

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Jenn T's avatar

I think “when I’m being healthy/when I’m not” a great way to acknowledge and frame how you’re feeling about something! Also, Ben Rector. GAH! The new album is so. good. I watched the livestream of the album and watching the video for Heroes, and hearing it for the first time-I was hooked. So so good. Have you seen Ben live before?

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Ellen Tate's avatar

I somehow have not!! Feels almost like a rite of passage haha

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Ronda's avatar

Ben Rector concert so fun! I know I have been listening to the Joy of music on repeat!

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Beth's avatar

Good morning from my dog, who does not like it when I go back to bed after feeding her so I'm laying on the couch instead. I have been listening to Bob Dylan almost non-stop since seeing him in concert a couple of weeks ago and hot take: he's a really good songwriter. I am caught up on Call the Midwife and love Trixie more all the time. I have a new library card and whole new collections to browse.

House update: I had planned on finishing cleaning and clearing out the trailer yesterday. I was almost there (it's a little over an hours drive) and realized I forgot the keys. It wasn't a completely wasted trip, but it's gonna be a long day today. My mom and I had talked about her coming out to help me and I thought this was going to be her and maybe my grandma here for a long weekend. She doesn't really feel like she can be away right now so what she's decided instead is to drop my grandma off here for a week like summer camp. Now, I adore my grandmother and I know I'll be glad to have her help, but also there's going to be another person in my house for a whole week. Also I'm having internet drama because if you don't have to go without internet for at least a week, have you even really moved?

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

That last sentence is SO TRUE and also, something I am hugely NOT looking forward to when we move.

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Beth's avatar

Pro tip: it helps a lot if you have the correct address to begin with. 🙄

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Rebecka's avatar

A new library sounds so exciting! Best of luck with the internet and everything else.

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Lauren White O'Brian's avatar

Good morning sweet friends!!! Happy Friday!

I don't think I have anything to share other than..... I'm going to the Live Show tomorrow in B'ham! I'm in row L on the floor!!! If anyone has plans to meet up or something please let me know!!! I'm so super pumped!

Okay, have a great weekend!!! Can't wait to catch up in the comments!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

I hope you have a wonderful time!

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Ellen Tate's avatar

L for Lauren! It’s your row!!! ;-)

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Erin H Moon's avatar

Can't wait to see you Lauren!

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Rebecka's avatar

Have the best time!

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

Ooh, so excited for you Lauren! I know it’s going to be the best time. 😊

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Eliza Barger's avatar

Good morning friends!

🏕I'm excited for all of you live show attendees to finally see each other in person. Hopefully more live events are on the horizon like Lil' Swipes Camp!

Once again it rained on Wed am, so no outdoor storytime, my branch is having the worst luck with outdoor events. We're starting indoors in June though so it should be better then.

☕️I've been off 1/2 Wed- Fri which has been lovely, my body is still in that school break schedule and has been yearning for a spring break. My college bestie is here and we've just been eating good food and hanging out.

🇰🇷 Korean BBQ last night was delicious and a really cool experience. I've been a long time fan of Korean Englishman and Jolly so it was cool to try something I'd seen them introduce to so many people.

🪑Today we're doing some furniture shopping for my little apartment. Kim's got a bigger car than me, so we could actually transport any good finds!

That's all from me, looking forward to reading all your comments tomorrow.

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

Early spring rain is that frustrating mix of hope (because it's warm enough to not be snow) and annoyance (because...rain...and not sunshine), so hopefully many more sunny days are ahead for you. Korean bbq sounds delicious!

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Rebecka's avatar

I love how were all waiting and hoping for Lil' Swipes Camp. Hope you find some nice furniture today!

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Adjusting to not having spring break is the worst!

Also, very curious about your outdoor storytimes (when you are able to have them!). We've talked about trying to do some outside, but I'm not sure how it would work. Do you have a dedicated space for them?

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Eliza Barger's avatar

The building is an old video store so there is a lot of room on the sides where you could pull around and return your dvds. We've blocked that off and put some surprisingly nice picnic tables there. It's a nice space, but not super suited to storytime.

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Oh, that does sound nice though!

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

Gosh, yes and amen to Lil Swipes camp! What a dream. Korean BBQ is the *best* annnnd now I know what I want to do this weekend... 😂

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Ellen Tate's avatar

the unpredictability of spring weather is so hard! Yesterday I had to walk outside during the random hour that it snowed here in Arkansas. What even. Let's just say I was not thrilled.

Also, I think all adults should get spring break too!

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Lauren White O'Brian's avatar

Eliza, I swear anytime I have an ongoing event planned in the Spring it will always rain. In college I had a chemistry lab that was the farthest it could be possibly be from my dorm (like a 17 minute walk) and I hated it so much and every day when I was supposed to go to that lab it would rain.

Yes to Lil Swipes Camp! It will happen!!!

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Beth's avatar

Casual fan of Jolly, huge fan of Rev. Chris.

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April LeCureux's avatar

Can’t wait for this weekend!! Me and my 4 besties are taking on Birmingham and road tripping from Athens, Ga!! Erin, I know you will look lovely in whatever you choose to wear!!

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Erin H Moon's avatar

Can't wait to see you April!

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Have fun April!!! ♥️♥️♥️

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Good morning friends!

I finally did apply for the promotion I mentioned a few weeks ago, so now I just have to wait! The library is notoriously slow at hiring, so it'll be at least another couple weeks before I'll hear back about an interview.

I CANNOT WAIT to see so many of your faces in Chicago so soon!!!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

Hooray for applying, good for you! Also, y'all are SO CLOSE to being here, it feels like Christmas!

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Rebecka's avatar

Go you! Hope you won't have to wait too long.

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Jackie's avatar

I am so excited you get to go to Chicago soon and for the application! Fingers crossed for you! ❤️

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Thank you!!

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Ellen Tate's avatar

Waiting is hard. Excited & hopeful for you!!

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Melanie S.'s avatar

It really is!

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Lauren White O'Brian's avatar

Melanie! Yay! I'm so happy you applied! I'm in the same boat now. They just announced that the person that has the job I've always wanted is retiring in June, and even though I've only been in my current position since January I feel like I have to apply because these positions just don't come up that often. GOOD LUCK and please let us know how it goes! I used to be a career counselor at my college in grad school and would help people prepare for interviews and stuff, so if you need help just let me know :)

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Yes, exactly! Have to take the opportunities when they come, I guess! That's so cool, I will definitely let you know!

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Eliza Barger's avatar

Yay, I'm so glad you went for it!

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Thanks!

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Fingers crossed!!! They would be remiss not to hire you for it. AND YAY LESS THAN A WEEK MELANIE

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Melanie S.'s avatar

🎉 Literally we are so close!!!

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Erin, have fun with the first live show! I will see you next week in Chicago!

I don’t have much today, but I just can’t wait to see so many of you in Chicago next week!

If you have been here long enough to know about McKenna, I’m going to ask for prayers/good vibes/positive energy again. She amputates her leg on April 7 (next Thursday). I’m excited for her to be able to live a life again but also this carries so much weight. She would covet your prayers.

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

Sending all the prayers for McKenna, and for you to get here safely next week. NEXT WEEK!

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Rebecka's avatar

Praying for McKenna ❤ I just put a little sticky note with her name on it on my laptop so I'll see it every day.

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Definitely praying for McKenna ❤️

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Juliana Ford (@jules.ford.27)'s avatar

I am *so* excited for y’all going to Chicago. I know you’re going to have loads of fun! (Just a teeensy bit jealous to only be watching the livestream 😂)

Also, praying so so hard for McKenna. You are truly the kindest of friends, Shelby. 💛

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Lauren White O'Brian's avatar

I wish I had a million dollars so I could go to every live show!!! Have so much fun in Chicago!!!

I've been thinking about McKenna and will definitely be praying for her!

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Alicia's avatar

Same! Last night was so much fun!

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