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Diana's avatar

I have a big treasure this week. I struggle with the word hero and how liberally we seem to apply it--probably the way some people feel about the word love. On Wednesday night my sister texted me that there were three fire departments at her house fighting a forest fire that had sprung up in the mountains of North Carolina. She sent pictures of the fire right at her fence line and the back blaze they were building to contain it. She then sent pictures of the firefighters drinking Gatorade in her driveway at 3 AM. My overwhelming desire was to go to each of them and look them straight in the eye and tell them they were heroes. It felt like one of those you don’t know until you *know* moments. My sister’s house, which is also her business, was saved, as were all of her dogs, and of course herself. My oldest already had plans to go visit her this weekend (he lives closer to her than we do). It delights my heart that he gets to hug her tonight and verify for me that all is well.

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Celia Grace Lively's avatar

Erin, you said this on Faith Adjacent this week, but I just need to comment it here. You said the thing about it taking ~18 months to adjust to a major life change, and not to be dramatic, but that has literally changed my entire outlook.

In the last 12 months, I have moved cities, changed jobs, looked for a new church, got engaged, planned a wedding, got married, and bought our first house, so moved again. Nearly every major (& expensive) life change, all since last November! I've been like "Why am I not better at this?! Why do I still feel weird?! Why am I crying at the slightest inconvenience?! " Then hearing you say that yesterday literally took the weight off my shoulders, so thank you! 😂

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