🩳 Lil Treasures #205: Owl Jewelry + Inventing Jorts
Executive Functioning Theft and a little casual Advent plan
Are we doing it? Are we doing holidays yet? I feel like all my people are kind of hanging on by a thread, yeah? One of my kids told their teacher yesterday: “I’m not mad at you, I just feel sad and I do not know where it goes.” Another one of my kids told me between sobs that they feel like they “can’t make anyone laugh anymore.” 5/5 Moons have screamed about something this week. I tried to make a harvest garland and the neighbor kid asked me what I killed (crafts are hard). Everything feels tense and also too tender to the touch. Not sure what to do other than to keep doing our small acts of peacemaking and justice-bringing, to not forget, to offer prayers, to place a call, and to continue to educate ourselves and listen to different perspectives.
Let’s do the treasures!
🕯️ Last week I asked if any of you would be interested in reading The First Advent in Palestine: Reversals, Resistance, and the Ongoing Complexities of Hope by Kelley Nikonheda for Advent this year. About 30% of you said “absolutely” and about 30% of you said “it’s possible” so whoever wants to join us, we’re doing it. It’s going to be very lowkey and laid-back because that’s all I have to offer this year. All you have to do is get the book and start reading. I’ll be posting some of the discussion questions on Sundays just for those who sign up next Lil Treasures (so the Lil Swipes list will continue undisturbed) and you can feel free to walk through them in the comments if you want. AND AS A VERY COOL BONUS: Kelley Nikonheda will be joining us in some capacity to answer questions and share a little bit of the behind-the-scenes of her book (more on that later). This all costs zero dollars (except for buying the book), and I hope if you’re kind of dragging your butt towards Advent (🙋🏻♀️), you’ll consider doing this small, but reflective exercise with us.
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tells us exactly why some of us are besotted with this very public and for some reason not annoying (I realize some of you are extremely annoyed by it) relationship and why it feels like the best reality show we have to watch right now. And bonus points for weaving in my fave Mad Men character, Dr. Faye.🥧 Yes tis I with another Half-Baked Harvest recipe that I will attempt next week for Thanksgiving. Do I make pies? No. Am I going to give it my best shot? Sure am.
🍊 Next week I begin Christmassing my whole life and I am also feeling extremely Little Women-y, so we’re attempting some dried orange garlands this year. Crafting is hard for me, but yet we persevere.
🪐 It was somehow cathartic to watch Iliza Shlesinger give Gen-Z a rundown of contextual background for why Millenials are they way they are. When she mentioned the owl jewelry and small batch lavender ice cream, I shot into outer space (language warning).
🫶 Love you, Mary Oliver’s Drunk Cousin.
📡 This week on Faith Adjacent, we put out our final classic episode, this one about Joseph, adoptive-ish father of Jesus. We’ve finally run out of Bible stories that warrant an entire episode! We’ll still be doing the podcast, just without that episode type, but I’ll miss these a lot. Returning to some of these passages with fresh eyes, many of which I had not read since I was a kid, was so crucial in helping me love and genuinely delight in scripture again. The Bible has become a friend to me, which is something only a gigantic nerd would say. Anyway, I’m really proud of the work we did on those classics, so if you’ve never checked them out, we’re pretty decent company if you’ve got a long Thanksgiving drive coming up.
Meme Dump-a-Thon:
I hope you all have a lovely weekend! No Lil Treasures next week in observance of the week of Thanksgiving here in the States! I’ll miss you all and I’ll see you in December!
“I just feel sad and I do not know where it goes.” Exactly. I stopped my husband the other day who tried to advise me while I was sobbing “I just need someplace for my pain to go. I'm not a millennial, but that was funny! I also love Mary Oliver's Drunk Cousin. Felt that poem for sure. I dont have the bandwidth to read a Thinking Book until 12/22, but I am 100% making a dried orange garland.
🍸 Dogsitting our little buddy Mochi this week who is a pint-sized pain in the ass. (He was up from 12:30-3 am scratching, lacking, and fidgeting.) His parents pick him up sometime on Thanksgiving. And after my in-laws leave (we're hosting), I'm having one of these (did i share this already? The guy has a Substack (https://open.substack.com/pub/spatchcock?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=1vmrh ). Anyway it's delicious and the recipe is hilarious.
https://ediblesanfrancisco.com/fall-2023/the-coping-mechanism/
📺 Guys I think I may need to be done with Glee. Too cringe. Besides it's cozy time so I gotta get my Little Women, Norah Ephron, etc on. My other cozy thing is PBS documentaries. What can i say they have soft music and gentle narration. I watched a great PBS Independent Lens on the housing/real estate mess:
https://www.pbs.org/independentlens/documentaries/owned-a-tale-of-two-americas/
📻 Another work in progress autumn playlist. This one is mellow vibes. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4vHOyP28nSRb7C7KrcrX9W?si=pyebGUpkQzuKsDB6ZxYMtw
And this one, which is not really in the right order. So im still “tweaking”. Jazzy. Norah Ephrony:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2ffuUDJlnVNMaY2eQzerDO?si=p857mX8KRQKvOMm5j1Jd2Q
✈️ My husband chuckles at my Kevin McAllister-esque security measures when we travel, so he got me this. 😄 I dunno. I may add it to my light timers and radios etc. https://a.co/d/ckY1qan
👢 We do have a work trip coming up to a place that has snow, so I needed something I could wear with biz casual work clothes and not fall on my pantothenic. Out of carichter for me, I got these. I feel like these say preppy but my other shoes are Chucks. Anyway they look cute with my trousers and jeans and are super stable:
https://www.dsw.com/en/us/product/Steve%20Madden-Lando%20Loafer/550674
That's all I got. Hope you have the best Friday available and I will see you in the comments.
I wanted to let you know how grateful I have been for the classic episodes. My faith has been a bit *tender* for the past several years, so it was my love for you, Knox, and Jamie that led me to tiptoe into The Bible Binge this past spring, starting with the Favored of Forsaken episodes. The curiosity, compassion, and humor (not to mention the light roasting of theo bros) displayed in these classic episodes have been such a gift and have revitalized my faith in a way I could not have imagined was possible a year ago.