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Amanda Maxfield's avatar

OH I have to add my ONJ tidbit ...

So, my older cousin introduced me to Grease maybe the summer before 1st grade? To say I was obsessed is an understatement. A few weeks later, at meet-the-teacher, I was asked for any nicknames. Simultaneously - Mom: No, Me: Yes, Mandy. Mom was clearly bewildered because never in my life had anyone called me anything but Amanda. But, I realized my name could be *so close* to Sandy! And so I became Mandy and remained so until my husband and I moved to B'ham and it just became easier as a *real adult* to use my legal name for signing documents and such. Back to Amanda. People who know me from college (and my parents and brother) still call me Mandy ;)

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Ok, SAME with the food memories. Just got back from NYC with another BFOTS where we planned our entire trip around food.

NYC - (1) Bell Book and Candle - Get the crispy jalapeno fried deviled eggs and the goat cheese/bean dip, add chorizo. This place is pretty hidden in Greenwich Village. The vibes are (2) Tamarind - I'm always getting Indian food. This place was recommended to Mindy Kaling on Twitter and it did not disappoint. The Gobi special was fire. (3) Jacob's Pickles - freaking everything. EVERYTHING. But, be prepared to nap in Central Park after pickle margs and biscuits and gravy.

Italy - For your relics and ravioli trip with Jamie ... the bread at all the restuarants in Rome was significantly better than the bread at the Florence restaurants. In Florence it was more of a whole grain situation which was disappointing. I'll eat healthy stateside. Although, that was 10 years ago, so things could've changed ;)

Asheville - Chai Pani. Like I said, Indian is always on the schedule.

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Chalaina K's avatar

Food!! My hubby & I love finding yummy food wherever we go. Let's see....

Maui: Miso Phat Sushi & Maui Pie

Kauai: Kauai Sushi Station, Plantation House (the desserts!!), Bar Acuda (tapas)

Portland, OR: Tin Shed Garden Cafe (breakfast!), Salt N Straw (delicious ice cream), Petite Provence (amazing croissants!)

Seattle, WA: Din Tai Fung (dumplings)

Walla Walla, WA: Bangkok 103 (thai!!!!)

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LeAndra's avatar

The biblically accurate Larry had me legit laughing out loud.

Treasures with a side of turds, because life contains multitudes: We closed on the house on Monday. It got funded and recorded on Tuesday. Praise Jesus. But also, my nervous system is still trying to adjust to no new bad news and my intellectual brain is frustrated I can't just be there already.

In other good news, a family member who dealt with infant loss last year delivered a healthy baby two days ago - I'm headed to snuggle baby later today and having all the feels about it.

We attended the wedding of one of my husband's employees and my first thought wasn't immediately 'oh those poor kids don't know what they're signing up for' - it was my 2nd thought though haha. BUT I will take any improvement, I had to quit 'doing' weddings for a while there because all I could focus on was how poorly we equipped baby adults to be healthy in their marriages.

We watched The Lost City last night and I cried laughing at multiple points - sometimes just at my husband's discomfort with how unrealistic the action scenes and plotline was, but hey. It was free on Amazon Prime so we didn't lose anything but braincells and sleep (which, when put that way, sounds like it was an expensive watch).

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D.L. Mayfield's avatar

I highly recommend Annie’s club! But um the Moroccan afghan blanket is HARD if you are a beginner like me 😂

I’m also seeking some food recs for NYC! Specifically around the lower east side if anyone has any :)

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Leah Finn's avatar

I think I’m going to do it! I’ve known how to crochet for years but haven’t completed anything also in years. Could I ask- how much are you ‘assigned’ per kit? And what’s the hardest stitch you’ve learned so far?

(Thanks for helping this noncommittal enneagram 9 make a decision)

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Leah Finn's avatar

I live in Greenville, SC, and I love the variety of quality food we have in this little big town! It’s currently restaurant week and if it weren’t for the multiple repairs my vehicle has required this summer, I’d be taking advantage of alllll the specials!

I cannot stop drooling over the crochet kit and I need someone to tell me that it’s 1) manageable; 2) beautiful as the pictures; and 3) worth the price. It seems a bit pricey but yet so lovely, and a truly beautiful way to craft and create. Has anyone completed this blanket or a similar project through Annie’s Kits?

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Beth's avatar

Not a specific food city, but just, New Mexico. You think you know Mexican food, but New Mexican food is it's own thing, and can be very regional even just within the state. I am not even that crazy about green chile (thus bringing dishonor on the family name), but I do have a lot of NM patriotism, so don't even try me with that Colorado chile. That said, there is absolutely nothing better in the winter than a solid green chile chicken stew.

I've seen several Italy mentions for food recs (for obvious reasons), so buckle up for practical history corner. Italy is a bit like the U.S. in that it has very strong regional identities. It was a collection of independent city-states until unification in the mid 1800s, which is pretty dang recent. This means that each region has it's own food identity and things that it's known for. So, if you're going to Italy, do not expect to get great pizza everywhere. Find out what food the area you're going to is known for and eat that, you won't be sorry.

This tweet made me laugh real hard and I've been thinking about it for days: https://twitter.com/masonmennenga/status/1560408745514921985?cxt=HHwWgsCjzZLf16crAAAA

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Rebecka's avatar

That tweet! So good!

Thank you for the Italian history lesson, I remember my mind being blown when I first learned this back when I was studying Italian. And that pizza really hasn't been around that long either!

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Dawn's avatar

Ha! That tweet! He probably wood too! And I love a chicken Chile stew

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Abby Boatwright's avatar

I too feel the food is part of the fun of travel. My favorite food destination is New Orleans. Charleston, too. I’m from San Antonio (live in Fort Worth now) and I’m biased but we have really great food in San Antonio. I also love the food in San Francisco!

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Libby G's avatar

Here here for New Orleans! As a Louisiana gal, I’ve just not found any food scene that compares — especially when it comes to seafood!

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Beth's avatar

I recently moved to San Antonio, so drop ALL the recs!

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Abby Boatwright's avatar

I always recommend Esquire Tavern on the riverwalk for speakeasy drinks and elevated pub food. Acenar and Iron Cactus are both Mexican food places also on the riverwalk. But you need to get some baked good from Mi Tierra - the atmosphere there is amazing.

My favorite Mexican restaurant is El Chaparral in Helotes. It’s not fancy, but it’s classic San Antonio. Best Chinese food is Mencius Gourmet in the Medical Center. Brunch - I really like Magnolia Pancake Haus. Bill Miller has the best sweet tea (the food is just fast food bbq but the tea is great). Las Palapas is a good chain for breakfast tacos.

I haven’t been to a lot of new places. I go back to visit my family and just go to my favorite places. 😆 But join the San Antonio Foodie Group on Facebook and you’ll hear all about them!

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Christina J's avatar

Kids start school next week! I'm a bag of mixed emotions about it... happy, sad, overwhelmed, relieved. Anyone else... just me? 🙂🙁😩😅🤷🏻‍♀️

Adding the Hamburger Helper recipe to me list! Any other SIMPLE weeknight recipes out there? Hit me up! 👩🏻‍🍳

Treasures this week: enjoying the last days of summer at the pool with the kiddos (why didn't I do this earlier in the summer - so fun) 😎☀️, s'mores 🍫🔥, still enjoying Only Murders in the Building 📺, finished Loot on Apple TV 💰, getting my fall reading list ready 📚🍂 and celebrating my dad's 87th b-day! 🥳

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Rebecka's avatar

I love your treasures! 😊 I haven't seen Loot yet, is it good for bingeing?

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Christina J's avatar

It’s cute and light... perfect for days when you just don’t want to deal the world. Maya Rudolph always makes me laugh!

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Robin Troxell's avatar

My husband's cousin's son is one of the mullet contestants 🙄 I've been voting every day but it is quite painful for me!! However, go Rowan Bell!

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Dawn's avatar

I love this! 😁 I hope he does well!

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MJ Thach's avatar

I’ve lived a few places and am a firm believer in travel centering on food.

Pittsburgh - Primanti Bros (colossal fish sandwich)

Cincinnati - Skyline Chili & Graeters Ice Cream

Illinois - Monical’s Pizza (it’s the opposite of Chicago - thin crust and super yummy)

Denver - Tamale Kitchen. They apparently have more locations since I moved but I love the teeny tiny hole in the wall on W Mississippi in Lakewood. I still dream about their signature green chili

Honolulu - Moku Kitchen mostly locally sourced ingredients - never had anything less than delicious including the yummiest mai tais with pineapple foam on top. Lucky Belly I get their Beast Bowl ramen with brisket and oxtail wontons. Drank the most delicious old fashioned(s) of my life last weekend.

TBH- my Honolulu (Oahu) list is too long for this post, but any swipes who need to know about all the best fried dough etc lmk

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Rebecka's avatar

Ok, now I'm hungry! 😂

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

Primanti Bros is delicious! Skyline Chili, not so much, but yes to Graeters!

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Jen's avatar

This is why I love trying to new food even in my area. We went to a Georgian (county not the state) restuarnt for my birthday and had a superb waiter who told us what was authentic and what was more Americanized. I want to visit just to eat. Love visiting Europe with Celiac because they take gluten-free so much more seriously! There are options galore and good options! Croatia may be my favorite experience because we went from the bottom coast all the way up and the cuisine changes depending on what part of the country you are in. The north is very Italian, south very Mediterranean, and interior very Hungarian/Slavic (think stew and hard meals)

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Dawn's avatar

I forget that part of Croatia is Mediterranean. That sounds so cool!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

This sounds delightful!

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Heidi's avatar

Hello, Internet friends! We also are wrapping up the first week of school, and it's been a wild ride. The kids are enjoying being back with their friends and having more structure, but the whole getting up early thing and doing homework is...traumatic.

We were in the Outer Banks last week with family (I do not recommend a huge travel vacation the week before school starts), and it was not awesome. For starters, I came down with COVID 24 hours after we got there. It threw off everyone's vibe, and none of us really got to do anything interesting. We also discovered that our vacation tastes have changed since the last time we spent a week at the shore with this particular branch of the family - among other things, we have become foodies. They go to the Outer Banks every year, so maybe they have eaten All The Things, but between COVID and the grocery store, I was so disappointed that we didn't get to enjoy the seafood. I am wary of eating seafood here in Colorado, and was really looking forward to raw oysters and steamed clams and shrimp. I think we've decided that we're better off vacationing on our own so we don't feel bad about going out to local restaurants for every meal possible.

I've been listening to The Bible Project podcast lately, making my way through their backlist, and am really enjoying their series from five years ago about the different genres represented in the Bible, and especially reading the Bible as Jewish meditation literature as opposed to a moral guidebook or Life Application(TM) text. Jon and Tim walk through the story of Cain and Abel to illustrate how they engage with meditation literature, and it pretty much blew my mind. I love everything The Bible Project produces - I've been so burnt out on Bible reading for the past several years, and they have such a thoughtful and fresh approach to it that they make me want to pick it up again. https://thebibleproject.simplecast.com/episodes/344c17fd-344c17fd

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Dawn's avatar

I'm so sorry you got covid on vacation! What a killjoy this virus is! I've nor listed to this podcast. Thanks for the rec. I will give it a listen.

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

I'm sorry you got covid, that's a bummer! I'll have to go back and give those episodes a re-listen, they sound so interesting!

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Rebecka's avatar

Wow, that series sounds amazing, I'll have to check it out.

I'm really sorry you got sick on vacation! Hope you feel better now.

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Jackie's avatar

I’m so sorry you got Covid on vacation! That is my literal nightmare.

I’m also very grateful for The Bible Project. It’s one of those projects that I wish existed when I was in college when I first got saved, because it would have saved me a ton of grief from really bad theology. However, at least I have it now and I need to dive back into their podcast. Have you tried the app? It’s so fun and everything from the videos to the podcasts is so streamlined! 😍

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Heidi's avatar

I just downloaded the app a couple of weeks ago! I love the Movements and Journeys part. I listen to the podcasts in my podcast app so I can set up playlists with a variety of my favorite podcasts, but I'll probably use their app for that at some point too.

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Jackie's avatar

The movements and journeys have been so helpful for me too. 🥲

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Jackie's avatar

🌃 🥘 Shocker of shockers, Orlando has a developing food scene that is out of this world. *Stefon voice* this place has everything! Authentic Mexican tacos (with homemade corn tortillas and corn chips to boot!), the most delicious mahi mahi sandwich with crispy skinny fries, the best lobster roll in the last place you’d expect, the best pad Thai ever, Italian food that actually is authentic to Italy, brunch plus pies, BBQ with a Latin twist, and ramen that will make you weak in the knees. Asian food is my culinary blind spot, I know there’s a ton of great places that I haven’t tried in the Asian district (though I’ve tried a couple), it’s just the parking is impossible and I need someone to tell me what to do and what to order!

🎃 👻 Tonight I am going to Mickey’s Not So Scary Halloween Party! It’s the first official party since before the pizookie and I cannot wait! The year before Covid was my first year and because of the infinite candy haul, I donated 95% of the candy to my church to put in candy dishes. I think I kept a full size bar of Strawberry Starburst and a full bag Peanut Butter M&Ms, and probably will do all of that again.

🏊‍♀️ 🎉 Pool party season is in full swing and I’m so grateful that I have cultivated the confidence to wear a bathing suit. Not to mention, it’s Church Beach Day next Saturday! I think I’m looking forward to it for the very first time. It’s fun to have fun!

😘 ❤️ Have the best weekend available!

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Dawn's avatar

OK. That all sounds delicious! I hope you have the best time this weekend.

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Jackie's avatar

Thanks! I did have a good time! 😁

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

Peanut Butter M&Ms are the best M&Ms!

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Jackie's avatar

I AGREE 😍

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Melanie S.'s avatar

Okay, I need to come visit you and try all of these places!!!

Have the best church beach day!

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Jackie's avatar

I need to make a list! I have a list for Nashville and I don’t even live there!

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Melanie S.'s avatar

It's almost easier for places you don't live! I know there are great places in Fort Myers but I can never think of them off the top of my head!

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Rebecka's avatar

I do not understand how pool party season and Halloween party season can overlap but then again, I've never been to Florida. 😂 It all sonds fun though, have a great time!

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Jackie's avatar

I think Disney World is trying to make up for lost time because their Halloween parties got canceled two years in a row and they started in August this year. It usually is just through October! As for pool party season, it’s usually most of the year, except for November-February. But even then... 😂

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Rebecka's avatar

Ah, I just thought Disney always started that early, kind of like when stores start selling Valentines Day stuff before Christmas is over 😂 And pool season here is, well, the non rainy days of July 🤷‍♀️

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Jackie's avatar

It’s up in the air if Halloween three months long at Magic Kingdom is just a one time thing at Disney or if this will be permanent. But the Halloween to Christmas turnaround is equally as fast. 😂

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Have so much fun at church beach day!

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Jackie's avatar

I will! Hopefully there will be a cloud cover without a lightning storm! 🙏🏻

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Rebecka's avatar

It's Friday!

I'm sort of half-planning a trip to Stockholm next month to see Penny & Sparrow live (Ts and Ps that I'll be able to go would be appreciated) and you better believe that I'm already listing what restaurants I want to go back to and which ones I've never been to but want to try. In 2016 I had an incredible meal in an overpriced tourist trap of an Italian restaurant in Old Town that I didn't even want to eat at but I was so tired and so hungry, I just had to eat something. I barely remember what I ordered but I remember it tasted so good I couldn't stop giggling!

🤓 I got new, very much needed, glasses! And they're green. And they feel a lot more fun than any other frames I've ever had. The lenses make me a bit seasick though, so I hope that gets better soon.

☀ The weather has been really great lately, sunny, not too hot, perfect for ice lattes on the patio.

🎬 It hit me last week that if I bring my laptop to the patio I can watch stuff in the cool evening breeze, so I've been sitting outside bingeing Never Have I Ever and watching movies in my private little open air cinema and I don't know why I didn't realize sooner that this was possible. 😂 Just remind me to get more comfortable patio furniture next summer.

🩳 This is such a silly treasure but I bought a pair of short overalls in this coral? orange? color and they make me so happy! One the one hand they're so unlike what I normally wear and on the other they're so me. I love them.

Ok, now I have to go figure out how not to get nightmares about that biblically accurate Larry the Cucumber. 😂 Have a great weekend! ❤

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Dawn's avatar

"It tasted so good I couldnt stop giggling." What a great food memory. 😄 Your outdoor cinema sounds perfect! And my favorite glasses I ever had were green. It's a great color for striking Eyewear. I hope your weekend is lovely!

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Rebecka's avatar

It was probably the most expensive meal I've ever had but it was worth it. Hope your weekend is lovely too!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

Ice lattes, Never Have I Ever, and new glasses sounds like a wonderful week!! Also, I'd love the link for the overalls!

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Rebecka's avatar

Unfortunately I got the overalls from a site that doesn't ship outside of Europe, but I'll link to them anyway and if you like them I hope you can find them or similar ones somewhere. https://www.zalando.se/monki-haengselbyxor-orange-moq21t02b-h11.html

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Christina J's avatar

Excited for your new glasses! They sound pretty cool so now I am checking out green frames. Hopefully your eyes will adjust and feel normal soon.

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Rebecka's avatar

Does this make me an influencer? 😉 Hope you find frames you like!

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Eliza Barger's avatar

I hope the adjustment to your new glasses goes quickly. How fun that you've found a pair short overalls that bring joy, enjoy them to the fullest!

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Rebecka's avatar

Thank you so much!

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Hannah Myer's avatar

STOKED for you about the P&S show!! And in Stockholm. What a dream. All the T’s & P’s that it works out! 🤩

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Rebecka's avatar

I've seen Stockholm and I'm enamored with it... Thank you for hoping with me! ❤

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

I have an eye appointment tomorrow and just realized that means I can order new glasses soon! Yay for new glasses! I hope you get to see Penny and Sparrow - what a dream!

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Rebecka's avatar

Thank you! Yay for new glasses indeed, hope you find a pair you'll love.

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Jackie's avatar

I love Penny and Sparrow so much and I hope you can go!

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Rebecka's avatar

They're amazing. I hope so too 😊 Have you seen them live?

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Jackie's avatar

Yes! They opened for The Oh Hellos a few years ago at a club in downtown Orlando. That’s how I got into them! 🥰

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Rebecka's avatar

Wow! That show sounds incredible!

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Kristine Rego's avatar

Let’s see the glasses! I had a pair recently that made me sea sick too—that’s a great way to describe it/awful way to feel

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Rebecka's avatar

I'll try to convince myself to take a selfie and post it (not a huge fan of having my picture taken 😂).

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Happy Friday!

Austin, TX was the best food vacation I have ever been on but currently dreaming up pastry-fueled vacations in any other city I can manage.

My favorite day of the year is coming: Sunday. Why is it my favorite day of the year? It’s the first Sunday of this school year for the students at the U and Trader Joe’s will be full of freshman grocery shopping, filling their cart with dozens of items, none of which can successfully make a whole meal. I will hear so many, “Oh my mom always buys this - let’s get some” and I always wonder if they’re buying it because they LIKE it or if it’s just because their mom has it so they feel like they should too?

My beloved Amanda Soltoff took my IG joke seriously and sent me $10 to try somewhere new so I am finally trying some pastries at a bakery I have been wanting to stop into. Everything they make looks amazing.

If you’re keeping up with my Suite 16 (my husband and I’s march-madness-esque process for picking a city to live in), we have so far done Burlington, VT and Milwaukee, WI. Burlington lost for various reasons (sorry marley :( ) and Milwaukee came out on top. This week, I have Ithaca, NY and Trevor has Washington, D.c. If you have a city you think I should consider, tell me! (I will not be considering any cities in Florida. Floridians, I love you dearly, but I cannot do the swampness. Washington DC is pushing it already).

I am planning a weekend of Doing Nothing. Tara from House Peace helped me organize my closet and I feel like a queen. (Also, if you’ve been thinking about hiring her for an online consult, DO IT. Life is changed already!)

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Dawn's avatar

Woohoo! Milwaukee! (I don't even live there, but if you saw my post you know I'm a fan.) I love your description of the college freshmen. Two of my favorite ages: Jr High/middle school and college. Gah! The best!

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Melanie S.'s avatar

I would *never* recommend moving to Florida (especially if you consider DC swampy!)

I am so happy for your organized closet, it looks amazing!

Enjoy your pastries and your weekend of doing nothing!!

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Eliza Barger's avatar

Trying new pastries is always a good idea! I vote for Milwaukee since I'm probably moving to MI at some point soon 😂😂

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Jackie's avatar

If you ever want to just ~visit~ Florida, Orlando has two bakeries that I love dearly!

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Oh visiting is DEFINITELY not off the table! In fact it's something I would like to do very much!

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Jackie's avatar

Girl, I have so many mixed feelings about living here, but I really am proud of the way Orlando is kinda making its mark on the world. What I really love about it is most of the tourists go the opposite way to Disney World and for the most part, they don’t really come to the trendy parts of town, unless they’re staying at an Airbnb and then going to the parks. I once considered living in Nashville (another wonderful foodie town!) but then when I realized the influx of residents and tourists all hang out in the city center because that’s where everything is and there’s no Disney World in its own enclave to lure them away, YIKES.

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

SHELBY! Haha of COURSE I'll send you money to try pastries! Also, why do we love the same clueless college student actions? Finally, you're breaking my heart putting Ithaca against DC because I grew up in DC and love/hate it dearly, but Ithaca is the picturesque college town, so you'd still get those college students at TJs (bonus that you would of COURSE get to come over weekly for dinner). Send me pastry pics!

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

College students just crack me up lol. I will send you pics! I need to do my slide deck on Ithaca this weekend so I might be texting you with questions!

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Amanda Soltoff's avatar

They're delightful in all their clumsy unknowingness!

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Rebecka's avatar

Have a great weekend of Doing Nothing! It sounds awesome.

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Thank you!

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Erin H Moon's avatar

I am so glad you had Tara do a consult! She is the perfect organization sherpa!

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Shelby Livingston's avatar

Yes!! My life feels better after getting this one closet in order lol. I am slowly forcing her to be my friend, as well. I think it’s working so far. I just wish she was close enough that I could win her over with my baked goods!

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