- I am PUMPED for this weekend because I am meeting up with two other friends WITHOUT KIDS! We are heading to Holland, MI, so any of my Michigander friends that have recommendations for me, please share!
- I somehow ended up here last night and honestly, this whole video is my vibe going into the weekend
- I know Prime Day JUST happened, but Audible is having a HUGE sale and if you're a member, you can get some really great books for yourself and your kids. Janssen is my go-to as far as book recommendations go, and she's compiled a fantastic list here!
Otherwise, June was meh. Everyone here got colds, so bring on July. ONE LAST THING: if anyone can suggest why flies have suddenly decided my back deck is the new hip spot to hang out, I would absolutely love it. Between them and all the thunderstorms/tornadoes in Chicago of late, it feels a bit plague-ish around here. THANKS, LOVE YOU FRIENDS!
But I cannot go without saying how I am already ECSTATIC about how I have booked a flight and an adorable AirBnb for Houston to meeting some of our Texan Swipers. I am just....I have cried, squealed and now have that light I get to approach each day. Texas. Y'all ain't ready. The joyous screams and hugs are going to be NEXT LEVEL.
My "Plussies" - you know who you are. Thank you. I thank God for each of you each day.
If you want an unsung hero from the true crime podcast genre, check out Detective Trapp. She's a latina homicide detective solving the murders of women on the fringe. The story is wild and Detective Trapp is so cool and has a background that gives the story some extra sparkle.
Hey y'all! It's been a minute but there's so much comfort in knowing you are all here every Friday, even when I don't get a chance to hang out in the comments.
some stuff to share...
Oh No - My girls summer time with their dad is quickly approaching and while I look forward to getting to soak up time with my hubby and some friends, etc. there is always a tremendous shift in energy the week before they leave as we all navigate ALL. THE. FEELINGS and we are in the deep of that transition as we speak. That coupled with other ex-husband related stupidity has me on edge...bleh! Trying not to dwell on this and soak up the silly before my house is super quiet and the closet purging begins.
Oh Ya! - Florida trip was so fun (even with a few bumps from staying with family) we soaked up the sun, fished, beached, ATE, and enjoyed all the Universal Studios and Island of Adventures has to offer (Heavy on the Harry Potter - much to the delight of my heart) AND got to meet Jillian N and hug her neck! Y'ALL SHE IS A DELIGHT!
My in-laws visited from Ohio for a few days. I am blessed with the most low key in-laws who insist on staying in a hotel when the visit and really don't need much other than to just hang with us and the kiddos. They usually visit in the Spring and/or the Fall so the Texas Temps in June were a bit warm for them so we mostly hung out at the house and played in the pool and worked our way through a bunch of board games.
I got to spend a full day crafting with my mom and sister. It was so relaxing and good for my soul.
Speaking of things that are good for my soul... I get to hang with Mel, Avery, Amanda and hopefully Beth at the end of August! We're going to hang in Houston for a long weekend #LilSwipesMiniCampTexasEdition I have been squealing in glee and pinching myself since Mel booked her flight! I CANNOT WAIT!!!!
I hope you all have week full of blessings and things that make you squeal with glee! XO
AAAAHH the squeals are 100% mutual. The squeals, the excitement, the plans, the menu reviews, all of it. Is it bad I'm already thinking of what to pack and if I need some new dresses? LOL I CANNNNOTTTT WAAAAIIITTT
Hi folks - I haven't been in the comments recently because everything has just been too much lately. My SO is back to working that 5am to 6:30pm grind and I feel so lonely and I am so TIRED of all the life admin I have to do alone right now.
More than that though (because that is a temporary situation until strawberry season is over here in vermont) I am feeling more and more fed up by my job and feeling like it might be time to find something else. But it's so hard to know what the right thing to do is and while I have found some jobs that would be perfect they all involve moving and I just...the thought of moving right now makes me feel like a panic attack is coming. We moved into our first house two years ago and I don't feel ready to leave it. But things with my job keep downward spiraling (or that's what it feels like because maybe I'm over reacting? Or this is still pandemic madness? I don't know.)
There is a perfect job opening at a VERY good organization for more $$ than I make now. But it's in Maine. And while I would not be opposed to living in Maine (it's top of list for places in the US I would find acceptable) moving now feels too hard and SO has his job set through end of year.
Doesn't help that I've been at my current job for 6 years and it was my first career job after grad school. Also I know remote work is an option I just don't know if that's what I want either.
So basically thinking about this makes me want to cry and the only people I have any real contact with these days are SO (who is working so hard and then sleeping), my coworkers (who I obvs can't tell all this to), and my therapist who is surprisingly unhelpful.
Alison I’m in such a similar situation with work. I’ve been here 6 years and my first job post grad, too. I just made the decision to leave and it was hard with lots of tears involved, but I’ll be praying you get some clarity soon.
Hello! It's been a weeeeek. Definitely some turds: my 6 year old woke up on Saturday with both lice and a stomach bug (which caused her to miss 2 birthday parties that day, and a week of her beloved jiu jitsu [just in case]); I backed over an unnecessarily tall concrete, curb-like, storm drain entrance causing damage to my car; I got a touch of the stomach bug my kiddo had.
Treasures: my amazing husband who has been doing laundry almost 24/7 since Saturday to make sure we have the lice contained; my amazing 6 year old who is so resilient and kind; she also had a week of half-day art camp that she LOVED; we found out that the owner of the art studio also attends the church we were going to before the pandemic started (very much looking forward to starting back to in-person church sometime soon); my happy happy 5 month little love who makes us all smile; re-watching Schitt's Creek while everyone else is asleep.
I can't remember if I ever actually introduced myself here. I've been reading for awhile but not commenting too much. The last few weeks I've been trying to be more intentional about commenting because this is such a lovely space that Erin has created and I crave more connection in my life with some awesome grown-up ladies! I work in the admissions office at a university in Texas (north of DFW). I have been married to my delightful husband, Jason, for 9 years and we have two beautiful daughters; Lily, who is 6, and Hazel, who is almost 6 months. I want to write children's books, but I haven't done it (despite files of drafts and ideas and support and encouragement from both Jason and Lily). I would also love to figure out how to break in to the world of recording audiobooks, but I'm not sure where to start (I have no acting experience, and I feel like that might be important somehow). I LOVE books, and would like them to be more centerstage in my life. I am an Enneagram 9. Not sure if my wing is a 1 or 8 (both seem pretty balanced between righteous anger over injustice and semi-crippling perfectionism), which seems pretty par for the course as a 9.
So, since I want to be a bit more active here in this kind corner of the internet, I felt an introduction was in order. I hope everyone has a lovely week full of treasures! And for all the rest of you who are in the hellish landscape of a southern summer, may your deodorant be as strong as you are.
Hello Lauren. So lovely to meet you. I can attest that true, real life, amazing friendships are formed here. Being more intentional about commenting here was the best decision I've made in a long time.
I'm a fellow Texan and a graduate of a college north of DFW. Which school are you at?
This thread about Austin College and DFW is wild, Lauren and Lauren. I currently live in Sherman (went to high school here then moved back a couple years ago); I’m a graduate of TWU (waaaay before your time); and have lived in North Texas my entire life. What fun connections, y’all! ❤️
[Also, my college roommate was/is from Sugar Land, so I spent some years traveling in and around Houston. Small world!]
SERIOUSLY!!!! Go Roos! I graduated from AC too! I’m in Katy (west of Houston) but my mom grew up on Garland and I still have some family and lots of friends in DFW!
What!?! That's nuts! What year did you graduate? I was '07. I haven't been back in forever but it looks like campus has changed a lot. Lots of my Dad's family is in the Houston area, too.
Lovely to meet you, and I really enjoyed hearing about your life goals! I am a fellow writer/scribbler/book lover and it always makes me smile to meet another literary nerd. Keep us posted on your book ideas/audiobook recording journey!
Love the Bird Buddy shout out! Backing that on Kickstarter was my Christmas present from my husband. I am VERY much looking forward to it. Also, Wild Birds Unlimited is great if you want to feed that addiction further, and I believe they’re always locally owned!
Also, I almost never come into the comments, but WOW there’s a lot of good stuff in here. I’m lingering on jumping out of bed this morning because I have NOT COVID but my first sinus infection in the last 18 months. My doctor is so wonderful, and listened to my symptoms and believed me when I told her I KNEW it was a sinus infection because I get them more than most people. She then said “I’m gonna give you ALL the drugs” and it made me so happy. I get so tired of doctors (usually male, apologies to that gender) who tell me I’m wrong about how my body feels. It’s such a relief to find a doctor who listens and believes.
Also, hot tip, you can get at-home rapid Covid tests at Walmart now, and yes, I’ve taken many this week despite being vaccinated and knowing my chances of infection are super low.
Happy Friday! This has been a restful, but full week at home. I'm taking 2 classes this summer and one is just way more work than I wanted it to be. I'm trying to motivate myself to work ahead so I can enjoy my girls trip over the 4th... We'll See how that goes.
Treasures!
I've finished 4 books this week. My fav was Much Ado About Books which I think someone here recommended. MAAN is my fav Shakespeare so I had to read it.
Made a new top and messed around with some other sewing projects.
Took my pastor's 4 year old to the park and library yesterday. I lived with them for 1.5 yrs and I'm just so thankful for this family and the opportunity to be a bonus aunt to their 4 little ones.
I messed up the title, it's Much Ado About You. The plot doesn't really follow the play at all but it's a fun read. Heads up, there are a few open-door moments!
Happy Friday! These weeks seem to be flying by, but also dragging as we wait for this little dude to decide to make an appearance. I am equal parts “get here already, kid,” and “stay in and cook - I have so many things to try to get done!!!”
On to treasures:
🌡: we had one delightfully cooler day this week that had me packing up dinner and heading to a park with the fam. It was so nice to sit outside and not feel blisteringly hot inside and out.
📚: I realized this week that I just want to read fun fiction during the summer, so I abandoned a few books and started Whitethorn Woods by Maeve Binchy and People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry. They are perfect summer reads in entirely different ways. I also read The Penderwicks in a day, and loved it.
📺: I had a rare evening at home alone last night and finished up some tv series - The Mighty Ducks and Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist. The Ducks were pure sweetness and nostalgia; Zoey had me weeping AGAIN. I also started Crime Scene Kitchen, and I feel like someone peeked inside my brain to come up with this show. Baking? ✅ Mystery? ✅ Joel McHale as host? ✅ I love it all.
We’ll, I hear the troops stirring, so I’m off to start the day. Have a great weekend, all!
I finished People We Meet on Vacation this week and loved it! The storytelling was so intriguing and the way the ending honored both characters gave me such warm, fuzzy feelings!
I'm gonna Add "Lets talk about Sects" to this podcast list - its an australian podcast about cults - its refreshing to listen to something that's not Ameri-centric!
Treasury-iest Treasure is that James and I bought a house! - a condo really- kind of Federal style? I don't know architecture. but its a HOUSE for us to LIVE IN! We close July 7th, Lord willing! (and at that point we'll be in the 20s of our wedding countdown!!!)
I'm reading 200 picture books this summer for a class, and cataloging them all here https://speden1.wixsite.com/thereadingnook - if anyone has a favorite that I should add to my reading list, PLEASE share with me!
Well, first, congrats on the new home! You guys are just breezing into married life. 💕
Second, my college roommate (in the 1990s, mind you) always kept us stocked in children’s books so I’m going way back with these titles here. I haven’t read them in a while, but I’m hoping there’s nothing troublesome in the content that might not have jumped out at me in my 20s. If I’m wrong, then… teaching moment! 🤦🏻♀️
- David Wiesner: TUESDAY and SECTOR 7 are faves
- Shirley Climo did an interesting series on the Cinderella story in various cultures. Might be a nice companion to the ones you’ve read so far.
- Lois Ehlert: I love MOON ROPE
- Ruth Heller: A CACHE OF JEWELS was a fave; I loved her work as an illustrator.
- Grant Snider: THE SHAPE OF IDEAS
- Peter Reynolds: THE DOT, ISH, and my fave, THE WORD COLLECTOR
Of course, THE RAINBOW FISH, and anything by Mac Barnett is a winner. Happy reading!
I LOVE Wiesner. He was in the main gallery at the Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book art when I went in 2017. SO GOOD. Thanks for the other titles as well!!!
what a fun class to take - I’m a little jealous - congrats on your new home! We are closing in July too so here’s to that going smoothly for both of us!! Some picture book favorites:
Julia’s House of Lost Creatures (this is a trilogy) Ben Hatke (he can do no wrong IMO)
Nobody Likes a Goblin Ben Hatke
Three Little Cajun Pigs Mike Artell
Petite Rouge Mike Artell
Lon Po Po Ed Young
Pete and Pickles Berkeley Breathed
Clara Caterpillar Pamela Duncan Edwards
The Worrywarts Pamela Duncan Edward’s
Three Little Wolves and the Big Bad Pig Eugene Trivizas
Oh my gosh hitting that list so fast as I always love more books for Linc, he is doing shortish chapter books now (which is SUCH an improvement from our kid who struggled with sight words when he was 6) but picture books still bring us a ton of joy as he reads them all to me now and his voices *chefs kiss*
Wow, I love this! One Cool Friend by Toni Buzzeo is one of my favorite picture books. Definitely going to check out your site for books to add to my list!
Just a quick drop in before taking my little men hiking this morning. I survived solo parenting this week as my husband took a last minute work trip (first travel since COVID) and the kids were surprisingly awesome - so much easier now than when they were toddlers (go figure!).
The church hunt continues but we spent our second week at the church that is currently at the top of our list and were welcomed back warmly. I'm starting my own personal church history/roots of Christianity digging which is both overwhelming and informative; I am a late comer to the faith and am still working to understand denominations/church words/etc. Anyone else done this work that has resource recs?
My treasure is booking a 48 hour trip back to IN (home state) in a few weeks where we will stay in a tiny house! I am obsessed with all things tiny house related/minimalism and hope to downsize to one when we are post-kiddos. Thanks to the grandparents who are making this dream possible :D
My husband is a lifelong Hoosier (Lafayette); I lived in Indy for a few years as a kid and and in Broadripple for a year post-college (we are both Purdue grads) and love visiting whenever we get the chance. We haven't been back without kids in years so I am really excited to do some adult only things - or just walk on the Monon without someone asking for snacks/how much farther we are going, lol. I have an aunt in the Noblesville area and have spent many Easters/Thanksgivings there; such good memories!
Oh, I'm so glad the weekend is here, even if it is already so unbearably hot in Alabama and we can't really do anything other than find a pool to jump in.
Last week I told y'all about a job interview I had coming up on Monday and here is a little update. It went really really well. Like, I don't think I could have come up with better answers for the questions they asked. The next day they told me they wanted to proceed to the next step and would be contacting my references and doing my background check. I know they called my references on Wednesday, but that's the last I've heard. I've never hired anyone myself, so I don't know what all has to go into it, but I'm hoping I'll hear something by today or beginning of next week. The team I met seemed really supportive and like they would be fun to work with, so I'm hoping and praying hard that it will work out :)
Here's some internet treasures to kick off your weekend:
Great news on the interview! I find sometimes the back end work before the offering of the job gets hung up in approvals, paperwork steps so hoping that is the case!!
The HBO email and subsequent nice responses from others had me feeling the world was a better place. ❤️
In the ultimate of turds news, my father in law passed away in our home while they were visiting on Tuesday morning. My mother in law couldn’t wake him when his alarm when off and called us in to help. My husband and I rushed in there, and I could tell he had already passed but we called 911 and took turns doing CPR until they arrived. It was a traumatic experience, to say the least. Luckily my kids were easily distracted in my room and didn’t have to watch this happen. Obviously, we are devastated. This comes 6 weeks after their son (my husband’s brother) died, and a few months after my mother in law’s cancer diagnosis. To say we feel defeated is an understatement.
I’m incredibly thankful I had started seeing a therapist for other things a few weeks ago, so her and I spent some time processing through this yesterday. We have a long road ahead of sorting through my in laws finances (spoiler: it’s not great, Bob) and trying to clear out their giant barn full of crap to sell their land. My mother in law will be staying with us (likely permanently, I do not think she could truly ever live alone).
If there is any bright side in this, on Monday night my father in law got to spend time with his grandkids (my boys), see my husbands transcript that showed he had finished college (at 41, I’m so proud of him!), eat ice cream cake from my birthday as his last meal, and fall asleep next to his wife of 49.5 years. He died peacefully in his sleep and was received by Jesus.
Truly, I am coveting any and all prayers you can give us right now - dealing with the trauma of Tuesday morning, the sadness that comes from losing a man we loved, supporting my husband and children through this loss, and getting through the next months of hard work to deal with their barn/land sale and expected financial impact this will be while we sort it all out.
I have no words to help with the pain Lauren- but I am thinking of you and your family and praying for time to process and space to grieve. This is terribly tragic for your husband's family-- your family. Sending you all the very best positive vibes your way.
Oh Lauren, I am so sorry for your loss and for the trauma you experienced. I pray that God grants you peace and strength to persevere through what comes next and that your memories of your father-in-law are comforting to all of you during this difficult time
I’m so sorry for your loss. We are dealing with a sudden traumatic death of a beloved family member too. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Covering you in prayer right now - how sweet that his last night was so beautiful and full of memories. We will walk through your grief with you; let us know if we can help.
Praise be to God you were all there to be with your mother in law as she became a widow. I’m so sorry for the loss and trauma that has happened though. Praying as you navigate this journey. 🤎
Hank woke me up this morning with a loud “good morning and Merry Christmas!” For a hot second I thought how long did I sleep?!?
Eric- the saint is at summer camp with two of our teenagers, plus 65(?) others. The house he rents is a very very old farmhouse that sleeps a zillion but has no TVs and no internet and very spotty cell service. He did manage to call with his annual swear word about camp.
The following is a list of things he’s has said about camp/mission trips or the actual kids on trips when he calls home:
🌴Good morning from Hell.
🌴If we weren’t in a third world country I’d send her ass home ( this girl was also our babysitter. She loves to tell this story).
🌴Why did he sign up to be a camp counselor if he’s just gonna be a jackass the whole time?!
🌴Can y’all just shut the F*** up?!? I’m trying to talk to my wife!
Twenty-years in student ministry can make one a little short on patience by day four of camp! All the kids who’ve been sworn at or around LOVE to tell the stories of when Eric was sweary. I say all this I suppose to remember that your pastor/priest is not perfect. Camp is hard and sometimes swearing really does help. Also pray for my family as they drive home today.
In other news I cleaned the actual crap out of my daughters room yesterday! I sent the kids that are still home to my parents house and spend five hours cleaning their room. A least six bags of trash and four bags of clothes later the “cave of wonders” is gone!!
Last night my oldest son got his first tattoo. It’s so cool looking and I’m sad I couldn’t go with him. He’s been saving up for it and I think picked a very classy, interesting tattoo.
I’m taking the sons of thunder and the tween daughter to the beach today but I’ll check back in later!
Much love to my favorite internet gang in all the land!
My mom flies into town today and my husband’s birthday is on Tuesday, with his party being on Sunday - a pool party nonetheless! (If any of you, like me, are itching to go to a pool but don’t want to deal with 1,000 screaming kids and maybe you’d also like a margarita? Might I suggest Swimply - basically an airbnb for pools! You can rent peoples’ backyard pools. It sounds weird, I know. But people who leave reviews are painfully honest and you can read reviews and see if the owner was weirdly watching through a window or something. We’ve never had a bad experience, though!)
I just want my husband to have the best birthday party and birthday ever. Last year’s birthday was kind of meh and lately he’s been feeling like he doesn’t have a lot of true, good friends. He asked me to plan his party and plan it I did! Ice cream cake, chicken kabobs, fun pool floaties et all!
Also, do you have a budgeting app/tool you’d recommend? (One that is NOT Dave Ramsay pls and thx). We have had some expenses come up and it has drained our savings and we have a wedding reception to pay for so I am trying to build our money back up right quick 🙃
Happy Friday, Friends. If you follow me on IG I will definitely post about the birthday party and the fun in the sun if you want to see my experience with Swimply!!
Shelby, not sure if this will sound helpful to you, but what helped me with YNAB when I started in January was having a friend (who's been using it for a while) walk me through it and show me her budget. If that sounds helpful, I would be totally down to walk you through my budget and what I've learned! For me that was way less overwhelming than the videos and articles. If not, no sweat of course.
Juliana I would LOVE THAT ACTUALLY. I have YNAB (ironically I pay for it but don’t know how to use it 😂) but it seems like when people explain how to use it, it’s for one-time examples!! I can’t comprehend!!
Oh I totally get that! My friend tried to get me on board for years but I always felt wayyyy overwhelmed. I'll DM you on IG so we can talk more about it! 😄
Hey girlie, popping in to recommend the Mint app if you just need a good way to keep track of expenses, income, and goals. It’s not so much a teaching tool, but I love it for the simplicity. I’m going off previous years of experience (currently back to spreadsheets for my mom), but Mint was always just slightly above a check/bank register for me, and allowed me to budget in categories. Just another thought!
Hi Shelby, I have just started using YNAB and I felt totally overwhelmed by it at first. I have really dug into the articles and teachings they offer, and I think I'm beginning to understand now. I really think I will eventually like it a lot. I've tried everything....mint, everydollar, etc., all of them...and failed miserably. I am hopeful about this time. It's beginning to click.
You download the app. It shows you all the wonderful, in-ground pools in your area. (Some are above ground but we don't worry about those). You pay per hour, and some have a fee of like "if more than 20 people come, it's another $3 per person who comes". They all have their own rules but you can find one that you like and that works for you. Then usually they leave their gate open or something and you swim for your allotted time. Then you leave. And you don't have to pay to fill a pool in your backyard. It's amazing.
Thanks Shelby!! My parents are insistent upon dragging my kids to a local pool this summer (not into it) and I think this sounds like a perfect compromise :)
Omg a pool party sounds amazing right now! I grew up with a pool in the backyard and I didn't realize how spoiled I was until a few weeks ago when my parents sold their house. I miss it so bad I could cry. Googling Swimply right now. Thx!
The videos really help! There's a guy on YouTube (Nick True at MappedOutMoney) who has done some great tutorials. They're long, but really informative and helpful.
Last week I mentioned a matchmaker had contacted me as a possible match for one of her clients, so that's screening call was Monday. It lasted less than 10 minutes, because when she asked if having someone who shares my faith is important to me I was all, "YUP, very." This guy didn't fit that criteria, so The End. She did say she'll put a note of that in my bio so at least if other matchmakers come across my profile they'll know to only contact me as a possible match for guys who are also Christians and looking for a woman who is one as well. It's mildly disappointing, but I know it's what's right for me so I don't regret answering that way.
In somewhat related news, please enjoy this ballad about a snail named Jeremy who couldn't find someone to mate with, because I guess I relate to snails now. 😂
I definitely considered one of those Sleep Pods during the darkest days of the pandemic, because single + working from home + living alone was a brutal combo for a hug lover. But I do have a weighted blanket, which, when it's cool enough to be able to use, really helps me sleep.
On Wednesday I got to hold a baby for the first time in well over a year, and it was great. A co-worker entrusted me with their 4-week-old son, and even though it was only for a few hours, as a non-mom I was weirdly proud of my newborn caring skills. Turns out watching my siblings do parents has taught me a few things!
One podcast I've really enjoyed is Ungeniused. They're all quite short episodes (mostly under 20 minutes) , and they look at all sorts of unusual Wikipedia articles. The other day I listen to one about exploding lakes!
Also, my internet has been out at random points the last couple days because they're "upgrading" it in my neighborhood, which has made working from home quite the task. 🤦
Happy Friday afternoon Swipes!
Lots o' treasure:
- I am PUMPED for this weekend because I am meeting up with two other friends WITHOUT KIDS! We are heading to Holland, MI, so any of my Michigander friends that have recommendations for me, please share!
- I somehow ended up here last night and honestly, this whole video is my vibe going into the weekend
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XGy9kbL77g8&t=1s
- Also this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cxHwQl9pNM
- On a whim yesterday my husband decided to make this marble cake and it is bonkers good
https://www.lovefood.com/recipes/59887/paul-hollywoods-marble-cake-recipe
- I know Prime Day JUST happened, but Audible is having a HUGE sale and if you're a member, you can get some really great books for yourself and your kids. Janssen is my go-to as far as book recommendations go, and she's compiled a fantastic list here!
https://everyday-reading.com/audible-sale/
Otherwise, June was meh. Everyone here got colds, so bring on July. ONE LAST THING: if anyone can suggest why flies have suddenly decided my back deck is the new hip spot to hang out, I would absolutely love it. Between them and all the thunderstorms/tornadoes in Chicago of late, it feels a bit plague-ish around here. THANKS, LOVE YOU FRIENDS!
Hello lovelies....
What a day.
What a week.
Today, I just want to dive into the comments.
But I cannot go without saying how I am already ECSTATIC about how I have booked a flight and an adorable AirBnb for Houston to meeting some of our Texan Swipers. I am just....I have cried, squealed and now have that light I get to approach each day. Texas. Y'all ain't ready. The joyous screams and hugs are going to be NEXT LEVEL.
My "Plussies" - you know who you are. Thank you. I thank God for each of you each day.
Did anyone have great Prime Day purchases?
These were my two favorites
1. Mascara: https://www.amazon.com/essence-Princess-Effect-Mascara-Cruelty/dp/B00T0C9XRK
2. Gel Pens to use on some black lined paper: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0948L94TB/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
And with that, I keep it brief (shocking?!) aaaaand here come my comments
Love to all of you,
Mel
If you want an unsung hero from the true crime podcast genre, check out Detective Trapp. She's a latina homicide detective solving the murders of women on the fringe. The story is wild and Detective Trapp is so cool and has a background that gives the story some extra sparkle.
Ooh, very intrigued!
I’ve listened to that one and it’s very good.
Hey y'all! It's been a minute but there's so much comfort in knowing you are all here every Friday, even when I don't get a chance to hang out in the comments.
some stuff to share...
Oh No - My girls summer time with their dad is quickly approaching and while I look forward to getting to soak up time with my hubby and some friends, etc. there is always a tremendous shift in energy the week before they leave as we all navigate ALL. THE. FEELINGS and we are in the deep of that transition as we speak. That coupled with other ex-husband related stupidity has me on edge...bleh! Trying not to dwell on this and soak up the silly before my house is super quiet and the closet purging begins.
Oh Ya! - Florida trip was so fun (even with a few bumps from staying with family) we soaked up the sun, fished, beached, ATE, and enjoyed all the Universal Studios and Island of Adventures has to offer (Heavy on the Harry Potter - much to the delight of my heart) AND got to meet Jillian N and hug her neck! Y'ALL SHE IS A DELIGHT!
My in-laws visited from Ohio for a few days. I am blessed with the most low key in-laws who insist on staying in a hotel when the visit and really don't need much other than to just hang with us and the kiddos. They usually visit in the Spring and/or the Fall so the Texas Temps in June were a bit warm for them so we mostly hung out at the house and played in the pool and worked our way through a bunch of board games.
I got to spend a full day crafting with my mom and sister. It was so relaxing and good for my soul.
Speaking of things that are good for my soul... I get to hang with Mel, Avery, Amanda and hopefully Beth at the end of August! We're going to hang in Houston for a long weekend #LilSwipesMiniCampTexasEdition I have been squealing in glee and pinching myself since Mel booked her flight! I CANNOT WAIT!!!!
I hope you all have week full of blessings and things that make you squeal with glee! XO
AAAAHH the squeals are 100% mutual. The squeals, the excitement, the plans, the menu reviews, all of it. Is it bad I'm already thinking of what to pack and if I need some new dresses? LOL I CANNNNOTTTT WAAAAIIITTT
Hi folks - I haven't been in the comments recently because everything has just been too much lately. My SO is back to working that 5am to 6:30pm grind and I feel so lonely and I am so TIRED of all the life admin I have to do alone right now.
More than that though (because that is a temporary situation until strawberry season is over here in vermont) I am feeling more and more fed up by my job and feeling like it might be time to find something else. But it's so hard to know what the right thing to do is and while I have found some jobs that would be perfect they all involve moving and I just...the thought of moving right now makes me feel like a panic attack is coming. We moved into our first house two years ago and I don't feel ready to leave it. But things with my job keep downward spiraling (or that's what it feels like because maybe I'm over reacting? Or this is still pandemic madness? I don't know.)
There is a perfect job opening at a VERY good organization for more $$ than I make now. But it's in Maine. And while I would not be opposed to living in Maine (it's top of list for places in the US I would find acceptable) moving now feels too hard and SO has his job set through end of year.
Doesn't help that I've been at my current job for 6 years and it was my first career job after grad school. Also I know remote work is an option I just don't know if that's what I want either.
So basically thinking about this makes me want to cry and the only people I have any real contact with these days are SO (who is working so hard and then sleeping), my coworkers (who I obvs can't tell all this to), and my therapist who is surprisingly unhelpful.
Thanks for listening.
Alison I’m in such a similar situation with work. I’ve been here 6 years and my first job post grad, too. I just made the decision to leave and it was hard with lots of tears involved, but I’ll be praying you get some clarity soon.
Hello! It's been a weeeeek. Definitely some turds: my 6 year old woke up on Saturday with both lice and a stomach bug (which caused her to miss 2 birthday parties that day, and a week of her beloved jiu jitsu [just in case]); I backed over an unnecessarily tall concrete, curb-like, storm drain entrance causing damage to my car; I got a touch of the stomach bug my kiddo had.
Treasures: my amazing husband who has been doing laundry almost 24/7 since Saturday to make sure we have the lice contained; my amazing 6 year old who is so resilient and kind; she also had a week of half-day art camp that she LOVED; we found out that the owner of the art studio also attends the church we were going to before the pandemic started (very much looking forward to starting back to in-person church sometime soon); my happy happy 5 month little love who makes us all smile; re-watching Schitt's Creek while everyone else is asleep.
I can't remember if I ever actually introduced myself here. I've been reading for awhile but not commenting too much. The last few weeks I've been trying to be more intentional about commenting because this is such a lovely space that Erin has created and I crave more connection in my life with some awesome grown-up ladies! I work in the admissions office at a university in Texas (north of DFW). I have been married to my delightful husband, Jason, for 9 years and we have two beautiful daughters; Lily, who is 6, and Hazel, who is almost 6 months. I want to write children's books, but I haven't done it (despite files of drafts and ideas and support and encouragement from both Jason and Lily). I would also love to figure out how to break in to the world of recording audiobooks, but I'm not sure where to start (I have no acting experience, and I feel like that might be important somehow). I LOVE books, and would like them to be more centerstage in my life. I am an Enneagram 9. Not sure if my wing is a 1 or 8 (both seem pretty balanced between righteous anger over injustice and semi-crippling perfectionism), which seems pretty par for the course as a 9.
So, since I want to be a bit more active here in this kind corner of the internet, I felt an introduction was in order. I hope everyone has a lovely week full of treasures! And for all the rest of you who are in the hellish landscape of a southern summer, may your deodorant be as strong as you are.
Hi Lauren! Omg, the idea of being a reader for audiobooks is so something I'd love to pursue! I'd love to see your books, I bet they are amazing!
Hello Lauren. So lovely to meet you. I can attest that true, real life, amazing friendships are formed here. Being more intentional about commenting here was the best decision I've made in a long time.
I'm a fellow Texan and a graduate of a college north of DFW. Which school are you at?
This thread about Austin College and DFW is wild, Lauren and Lauren. I currently live in Sherman (went to high school here then moved back a couple years ago); I’m a graduate of TWU (waaaay before your time); and have lived in North Texas my entire life. What fun connections, y’all! ❤️
[Also, my college roommate was/is from Sugar Land, so I spent some years traveling in and around Houston. Small world!]
Small world indeed!
I love when this great big world feels just a little smaller!
Thank you! Born, raised, and still living in Denton. I got my bachelor's from Austin College (in Sherman), my master's from UNT, and I work at TWU.
What about you? Are you still in the area?
SERIOUSLY!!!! Go Roos! I graduated from AC too! I’m in Katy (west of Houston) but my mom grew up on Garland and I still have some family and lots of friends in DFW!
What!?! That's nuts! What year did you graduate? I was '07. I haven't been back in forever but it looks like campus has changed a lot. Lots of my Dad's family is in the Houston area, too.
I graduated in ‘04. It’s been a few years since I’ve been back. Homecoming always falls when I have a conflict.
Lovely to meet you, and I really enjoyed hearing about your life goals! I am a fellow writer/scribbler/book lover and it always makes me smile to meet another literary nerd. Keep us posted on your book ideas/audiobook recording journey!
Thank you!
Love the Bird Buddy shout out! Backing that on Kickstarter was my Christmas present from my husband. I am VERY much looking forward to it. Also, Wild Birds Unlimited is great if you want to feed that addiction further, and I believe they’re always locally owned!
Also, I almost never come into the comments, but WOW there’s a lot of good stuff in here. I’m lingering on jumping out of bed this morning because I have NOT COVID but my first sinus infection in the last 18 months. My doctor is so wonderful, and listened to my symptoms and believed me when I told her I KNEW it was a sinus infection because I get them more than most people. She then said “I’m gonna give you ALL the drugs” and it made me so happy. I get so tired of doctors (usually male, apologies to that gender) who tell me I’m wrong about how my body feels. It’s such a relief to find a doctor who listens and believes.
Also, hot tip, you can get at-home rapid Covid tests at Walmart now, and yes, I’ve taken many this week despite being vaccinated and knowing my chances of infection are super low.
Happy Friday! This has been a restful, but full week at home. I'm taking 2 classes this summer and one is just way more work than I wanted it to be. I'm trying to motivate myself to work ahead so I can enjoy my girls trip over the 4th... We'll See how that goes.
Treasures!
I've finished 4 books this week. My fav was Much Ado About Books which I think someone here recommended. MAAN is my fav Shakespeare so I had to read it.
Made a new top and messed around with some other sewing projects.
Took my pastor's 4 year old to the park and library yesterday. I lived with them for 1.5 yrs and I'm just so thankful for this family and the opportunity to be a bonus aunt to their 4 little ones.
I also love MAAN. I’ll have to check out Much Ado About Books 💗
I messed up the title, it's Much Ado About You. The plot doesn't really follow the play at all but it's a fun read. Heads up, there are a few open-door moments!
Happy Friday! These weeks seem to be flying by, but also dragging as we wait for this little dude to decide to make an appearance. I am equal parts “get here already, kid,” and “stay in and cook - I have so many things to try to get done!!!”
On to treasures:
🌡: we had one delightfully cooler day this week that had me packing up dinner and heading to a park with the fam. It was so nice to sit outside and not feel blisteringly hot inside and out.
📚: I realized this week that I just want to read fun fiction during the summer, so I abandoned a few books and started Whitethorn Woods by Maeve Binchy and People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry. They are perfect summer reads in entirely different ways. I also read The Penderwicks in a day, and loved it.
📺: I had a rare evening at home alone last night and finished up some tv series - The Mighty Ducks and Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist. The Ducks were pure sweetness and nostalgia; Zoey had me weeping AGAIN. I also started Crime Scene Kitchen, and I feel like someone peeked inside my brain to come up with this show. Baking? ✅ Mystery? ✅ Joel McHale as host? ✅ I love it all.
We’ll, I hear the troops stirring, so I’m off to start the day. Have a great weekend, all!
I loved seeing all your new book picks on GoodReads!!
The Penderwicks is such an adorable series!
I agree! We loved it.
I finished People We Meet on Vacation this week and loved it! The storytelling was so intriguing and the way the ending honored both characters gave me such warm, fuzzy feelings!
I am loving the way she weaves the past vacations into the present. And I really love these two characters!
Oh, man, Beach Read by Emily Henry is another winner if you like her story telling.
I loved Beach Read, too!
Good morning swipies! :D
I'm gonna Add "Lets talk about Sects" to this podcast list - its an australian podcast about cults - its refreshing to listen to something that's not Ameri-centric!
Treasury-iest Treasure is that James and I bought a house! - a condo really- kind of Federal style? I don't know architecture. but its a HOUSE for us to LIVE IN! We close July 7th, Lord willing! (and at that point we'll be in the 20s of our wedding countdown!!!)
I'm reading 200 picture books this summer for a class, and cataloging them all here https://speden1.wixsite.com/thereadingnook - if anyone has a favorite that I should add to my reading list, PLEASE share with me!
Well, first, congrats on the new home! You guys are just breezing into married life. 💕
Second, my college roommate (in the 1990s, mind you) always kept us stocked in children’s books so I’m going way back with these titles here. I haven’t read them in a while, but I’m hoping there’s nothing troublesome in the content that might not have jumped out at me in my 20s. If I’m wrong, then… teaching moment! 🤦🏻♀️
- David Wiesner: TUESDAY and SECTOR 7 are faves
- Shirley Climo did an interesting series on the Cinderella story in various cultures. Might be a nice companion to the ones you’ve read so far.
- Lois Ehlert: I love MOON ROPE
- Ruth Heller: A CACHE OF JEWELS was a fave; I loved her work as an illustrator.
- Grant Snider: THE SHAPE OF IDEAS
- Peter Reynolds: THE DOT, ISH, and my fave, THE WORD COLLECTOR
Of course, THE RAINBOW FISH, and anything by Mac Barnett is a winner. Happy reading!
I LOVE Wiesner. He was in the main gallery at the Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book art when I went in 2017. SO GOOD. Thanks for the other titles as well!!!
what a fun class to take - I’m a little jealous - congrats on your new home! We are closing in July too so here’s to that going smoothly for both of us!! Some picture book favorites:
Julia’s House of Lost Creatures (this is a trilogy) Ben Hatke (he can do no wrong IMO)
Nobody Likes a Goblin Ben Hatke
Three Little Cajun Pigs Mike Artell
Petite Rouge Mike Artell
Lon Po Po Ed Young
Pete and Pickles Berkeley Breathed
Clara Caterpillar Pamela Duncan Edwards
The Worrywarts Pamela Duncan Edward’s
Three Little Wolves and the Big Bad Pig Eugene Trivizas
Stuck Oliver Jeffers
Circus Ship Chris Van Dusen
I JUST bought Nobody likes a Goblin for my preggo sister who's hubby loves D&D! I thought it was great!
Ben Hatke is a favorite in our house, too. His graphic novels are checked out all the time by my big kids.
Agree! He’s definitely an auto buy author for me!
Oh my gosh hitting that list so fast as I always love more books for Linc, he is doing shortish chapter books now (which is SUCH an improvement from our kid who struggled with sight words when he was 6) but picture books still bring us a ton of joy as he reads them all to me now and his voices *chefs kiss*
PICTURE BOOKS ARE FOR ALL AGESSSSSS! love to hear that you're still loving those with him. :D
Yep, already read 42 this summer!
Congrats on the house! So exciting!
Picture books: oh man, we've got some faves in this house -
- The Wolf, the Duck, and the Mouse by Mac Barnett, illus. by Jon Klassen
- The Scrambled States of America by Laurie Keller
- Thank You, Omu! by Oge Mora
- Just Ask! by Sonia Sotomayor
- Chickens to the Rescue by John Himmelman
- Any by Mo Willems
- Any by Jan Thomas
Love Barnett/Klassen as a team!
Wow, I love this! One Cool Friend by Toni Buzzeo is one of my favorite picture books. Definitely going to check out your site for books to add to my list!
Ahhhh that's so exciting, Sarah! Congratulations!!!
Hi Swipes!
Just a quick drop in before taking my little men hiking this morning. I survived solo parenting this week as my husband took a last minute work trip (first travel since COVID) and the kids were surprisingly awesome - so much easier now than when they were toddlers (go figure!).
The church hunt continues but we spent our second week at the church that is currently at the top of our list and were welcomed back warmly. I'm starting my own personal church history/roots of Christianity digging which is both overwhelming and informative; I am a late comer to the faith and am still working to understand denominations/church words/etc. Anyone else done this work that has resource recs?
My treasure is booking a 48 hour trip back to IN (home state) in a few weeks where we will stay in a tiny house! I am obsessed with all things tiny house related/minimalism and hope to downsize to one when we are post-kiddos. Thanks to the grandparents who are making this dream possible :D
Have a beautiful weekend, friends!
How fun! Where in Indiana? My parents' families are both from Indiana, around Noblesville.
My husband is a lifelong Hoosier (Lafayette); I lived in Indy for a few years as a kid and and in Broadripple for a year post-college (we are both Purdue grads) and love visiting whenever we get the chance. We haven't been back without kids in years so I am really excited to do some adult only things - or just walk on the Monon without someone asking for snacks/how much farther we are going, lol. I have an aunt in the Noblesville area and have spent many Easters/Thanksgivings there; such good memories!
That's great! I never lived there but visited many times to see grandparents, I always love going back!
Happy Friday, my friends!!!
Oh, I'm so glad the weekend is here, even if it is already so unbearably hot in Alabama and we can't really do anything other than find a pool to jump in.
Last week I told y'all about a job interview I had coming up on Monday and here is a little update. It went really really well. Like, I don't think I could have come up with better answers for the questions they asked. The next day they told me they wanted to proceed to the next step and would be contacting my references and doing my background check. I know they called my references on Wednesday, but that's the last I've heard. I've never hired anyone myself, so I don't know what all has to go into it, but I'm hoping I'll hear something by today or beginning of next week. The team I met seemed really supportive and like they would be fun to work with, so I'm hoping and praying hard that it will work out :)
Here's some internet treasures to kick off your weekend:
- Celebrities singing Driver's License: https://www.instagram.com/p/CQM4RGpD7aT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
- Memes for Britney: https://www.instagram.com/p/CQhagHPHXpB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
- Joey Fatone and 3 members of BSB doing boyband choreo: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CQYoNTSHywA/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
- This racoon has a secret to tell you: https://twitter.com/LloydLegalist/status/1406275572280532997
Okay, that's it. Can't wait to catch up with y'all in the comments!!! Love always!
Great news on the interview! I find sometimes the back end work before the offering of the job gets hung up in approvals, paperwork steps so hoping that is the case!!
So glad your interview went well; thanks for updating us!
Hello Swipes!
The HBO email and subsequent nice responses from others had me feeling the world was a better place. ❤️
In the ultimate of turds news, my father in law passed away in our home while they were visiting on Tuesday morning. My mother in law couldn’t wake him when his alarm when off and called us in to help. My husband and I rushed in there, and I could tell he had already passed but we called 911 and took turns doing CPR until they arrived. It was a traumatic experience, to say the least. Luckily my kids were easily distracted in my room and didn’t have to watch this happen. Obviously, we are devastated. This comes 6 weeks after their son (my husband’s brother) died, and a few months after my mother in law’s cancer diagnosis. To say we feel defeated is an understatement.
I’m incredibly thankful I had started seeing a therapist for other things a few weeks ago, so her and I spent some time processing through this yesterday. We have a long road ahead of sorting through my in laws finances (spoiler: it’s not great, Bob) and trying to clear out their giant barn full of crap to sell their land. My mother in law will be staying with us (likely permanently, I do not think she could truly ever live alone).
If there is any bright side in this, on Monday night my father in law got to spend time with his grandkids (my boys), see my husbands transcript that showed he had finished college (at 41, I’m so proud of him!), eat ice cream cake from my birthday as his last meal, and fall asleep next to his wife of 49.5 years. He died peacefully in his sleep and was received by Jesus.
Truly, I am coveting any and all prayers you can give us right now - dealing with the trauma of Tuesday morning, the sadness that comes from losing a man we loved, supporting my husband and children through this loss, and getting through the next months of hard work to deal with their barn/land sale and expected financial impact this will be while we sort it all out.
I have no words to help with the pain Lauren- but I am thinking of you and your family and praying for time to process and space to grieve. This is terribly tragic for your husband's family-- your family. Sending you all the very best positive vibes your way.
I am so sorry for your loss. <3
Lauren, we are lifting you up. You are so very loved. ♥️
Lauren, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh Lauren, I am so sorry for your loss and for the trauma you experienced. I pray that God grants you peace and strength to persevere through what comes next and that your memories of your father-in-law are comforting to all of you during this difficult time
Prayers for comfort and clarity during such a heart-breaking time for your family.
I’m so sorry to hear this and praying for your family
Lauren, I'm so sorry. Praying for you and your family.
Lauren, I'm so sorry. I am praying for your family. My words won't make it better, but please know how very sorry I am for y'all.
Oh Lauren, my heart hurts for you and your family. Praying for you all.
I’m so sorry for your loss. We are dealing with a sudden traumatic death of a beloved family member too. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
I’m so sorry you are also going through this Annette. Will be praying for you all too as you navigate this. ❤️
Covering you in prayer right now - how sweet that his last night was so beautiful and full of memories. We will walk through your grief with you; let us know if we can help.
The last night is giving me so much comfort right now. ❤️❤️
What a sad and traumatic experience. I'm so sorry, Lauren, and I will be praying for you, your family, and your mother in law.
Praise be to God you were all there to be with your mother in law as she became a widow. I’m so sorry for the loss and trauma that has happened though. Praying as you navigate this journey. 🤎
That was truly God’s hand in it all. If he has passed at their home, my MIL would have been alone four hours away from us.
Good morning!!
Hank woke me up this morning with a loud “good morning and Merry Christmas!” For a hot second I thought how long did I sleep?!?
Eric- the saint is at summer camp with two of our teenagers, plus 65(?) others. The house he rents is a very very old farmhouse that sleeps a zillion but has no TVs and no internet and very spotty cell service. He did manage to call with his annual swear word about camp.
The following is a list of things he’s has said about camp/mission trips or the actual kids on trips when he calls home:
🌴Good morning from Hell.
🌴If we weren’t in a third world country I’d send her ass home ( this girl was also our babysitter. She loves to tell this story).
🌴Why did he sign up to be a camp counselor if he’s just gonna be a jackass the whole time?!
🌴Can y’all just shut the F*** up?!? I’m trying to talk to my wife!
Twenty-years in student ministry can make one a little short on patience by day four of camp! All the kids who’ve been sworn at or around LOVE to tell the stories of when Eric was sweary. I say all this I suppose to remember that your pastor/priest is not perfect. Camp is hard and sometimes swearing really does help. Also pray for my family as they drive home today.
In other news I cleaned the actual crap out of my daughters room yesterday! I sent the kids that are still home to my parents house and spend five hours cleaning their room. A least six bags of trash and four bags of clothes later the “cave of wonders” is gone!!
Last night my oldest son got his first tattoo. It’s so cool looking and I’m sad I couldn’t go with him. He’s been saving up for it and I think picked a very classy, interesting tattoo.
I’m taking the sons of thunder and the tween daughter to the beach today but I’ll check back in later!
Much love to my favorite internet gang in all the land!
🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
That clean up. I am still ASTOUNDED. The work was DONNNNNE. Enjoy your beach day today Erin. Love you!
I LOVE so much of this. Totally here for sweary pastor energy!
I love a sweary pastor!
I’ve always believed in a well-placed swear word.
That last one got me 😂. Just let the man talk to his wife in some peace!
🤣
Oh I love the pastor cussing on youth trips stories!!
🤎
Hello, happy friday!
My mom flies into town today and my husband’s birthday is on Tuesday, with his party being on Sunday - a pool party nonetheless! (If any of you, like me, are itching to go to a pool but don’t want to deal with 1,000 screaming kids and maybe you’d also like a margarita? Might I suggest Swimply - basically an airbnb for pools! You can rent peoples’ backyard pools. It sounds weird, I know. But people who leave reviews are painfully honest and you can read reviews and see if the owner was weirdly watching through a window or something. We’ve never had a bad experience, though!)
I just want my husband to have the best birthday party and birthday ever. Last year’s birthday was kind of meh and lately he’s been feeling like he doesn’t have a lot of true, good friends. He asked me to plan his party and plan it I did! Ice cream cake, chicken kabobs, fun pool floaties et all!
Also, do you have a budgeting app/tool you’d recommend? (One that is NOT Dave Ramsay pls and thx). We have had some expenses come up and it has drained our savings and we have a wedding reception to pay for so I am trying to build our money back up right quick 🙃
Happy Friday, Friends. If you follow me on IG I will definitely post about the birthday party and the fun in the sun if you want to see my experience with Swimply!!
Shelby, not sure if this will sound helpful to you, but what helped me with YNAB when I started in January was having a friend (who's been using it for a while) walk me through it and show me her budget. If that sounds helpful, I would be totally down to walk you through my budget and what I've learned! For me that was way less overwhelming than the videos and articles. If not, no sweat of course.
Also, I am downloading Swimply RIGHT NOW. 😂
Juliana I would LOVE THAT ACTUALLY. I have YNAB (ironically I pay for it but don’t know how to use it 😂) but it seems like when people explain how to use it, it’s for one-time examples!! I can’t comprehend!!
Oh I totally get that! My friend tried to get me on board for years but I always felt wayyyy overwhelmed. I'll DM you on IG so we can talk more about it! 😄
Hey girlie, popping in to recommend the Mint app if you just need a good way to keep track of expenses, income, and goals. It’s not so much a teaching tool, but I love it for the simplicity. I’m going off previous years of experience (currently back to spreadsheets for my mom), but Mint was always just slightly above a check/bank register for me, and allowed me to budget in categories. Just another thought!
OH my gosh, Swimply???! This is something I never knew I needed but holy crap this is AMAZING!!!
Hi Shelby, I have just started using YNAB and I felt totally overwhelmed by it at first. I have really dug into the articles and teachings they offer, and I think I'm beginning to understand now. I really think I will eventually like it a lot. I've tried everything....mint, everydollar, etc., all of them...and failed miserably. I am hopeful about this time. It's beginning to click.
Swimply sounds amazing and I cannot wait to try it! Hope your husband has the best birthday!
Just heard of swimply and now my summer plans to swim are being made. Thank you
Um this pool rental situation is insane in the best way. please tell us all about it!!
You download the app. It shows you all the wonderful, in-ground pools in your area. (Some are above ground but we don't worry about those). You pay per hour, and some have a fee of like "if more than 20 people come, it's another $3 per person who comes". They all have their own rules but you can find one that you like and that works for you. Then usually they leave their gate open or something and you swim for your allotted time. Then you leave. And you don't have to pay to fill a pool in your backyard. It's amazing.
Thanks Shelby!! My parents are insistent upon dragging my kids to a local pool this summer (not into it) and I think this sounds like a perfect compromise :)
Omg a pool party sounds amazing right now! I grew up with a pool in the backyard and I didn't realize how spoiled I was until a few weeks ago when my parents sold their house. I miss it so bad I could cry. Googling Swimply right now. Thx!
It is hotter than hell here right now so I think everyone will be glad for a dip in the pool!
The quickness that I googled Swimply probably qualified me for the Olympics.
Also, I use YNAB. I don't know much about DR, but it may be adjacent to his principles. I've been using it for almost a year and it's been wonderful!
We just need to get back on track with YNAB. I tried to just teach myself how to use it but I think I need to actually watch the videos!
The videos really help! There's a guy on YouTube (Nick True at MappedOutMoney) who has done some great tutorials. They're long, but really informative and helpful.
It definitely feels weird at first but once you start swimming there's no looking back
Last week I mentioned a matchmaker had contacted me as a possible match for one of her clients, so that's screening call was Monday. It lasted less than 10 minutes, because when she asked if having someone who shares my faith is important to me I was all, "YUP, very." This guy didn't fit that criteria, so The End. She did say she'll put a note of that in my bio so at least if other matchmakers come across my profile they'll know to only contact me as a possible match for guys who are also Christians and looking for a woman who is one as well. It's mildly disappointing, but I know it's what's right for me so I don't regret answering that way.
In somewhat related news, please enjoy this ballad about a snail named Jeremy who couldn't find someone to mate with, because I guess I relate to snails now. 😂
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UDZmxfZfRWY&feature=youtu.be
I definitely considered one of those Sleep Pods during the darkest days of the pandemic, because single + working from home + living alone was a brutal combo for a hug lover. But I do have a weighted blanket, which, when it's cool enough to be able to use, really helps me sleep.
On Wednesday I got to hold a baby for the first time in well over a year, and it was great. A co-worker entrusted me with their 4-week-old son, and even though it was only for a few hours, as a non-mom I was weirdly proud of my newborn caring skills. Turns out watching my siblings do parents has taught me a few things!
One podcast I've really enjoyed is Ungeniused. They're all quite short episodes (mostly under 20 minutes) , and they look at all sorts of unusual Wikipedia articles. The other day I listen to one about exploding lakes!
Also, my internet has been out at random points the last couple days because they're "upgrading" it in my neighborhood, which has made working from home quite the task. 🤦
This podcast looks like PERFECTION. Short and nerdy!
Sorry about the matchmaker, but glad you stuck to your value and she took note of it! Hopefully soon the right one comes along.